Often, our relationship to God is like a gas station; e.g. we pray in the morning at a tankful patience and strength, and try as much as possible to go through the day. Here, we forget that Jesus is not only our Lord, but also our friend. He wants to get us into the car and accompany us on every challenge of the day. We must not be filled by God, but be filled with God. If you build a deep friendship with Jesus, you can easily give away every day because you know that you are unconditionally loved and accepted.