Derrick Milner's Week 4 message in the "Distracted" series encourages students to gently restore peers who are "messing up." He emphasizes that people often carry unseen burdens leading them to make poor choices, and rather than judging or shaming, followers of Jesus should offer support and understanding. Milner illustrates this point with a personal anecdote about a former student, Tolu, who, despite his leadership potential, was consistently led astray by negative influences. Milner expressed his frustration at the time but highlights Tolu's eventual transformation into a student pastor, showcasing the importance of continued care and guidance.

Milner references Galatians 5 and 6, where Paul warns against the "works of the flesh" and instructs believers to restore those who err with a "gentle spirit," while also "carrying one another's burdens." He stresses that true friendship involves not only pointing out flaws but also actively helping and encouraging individuals through their struggles, likening it to Jesus's varied approaches to rebuke. Milner concludes by highlighting that this restorative approach is central to discipleship, urging students to be a light in the world by showing love and support to those around them.