Before we can begin to overcome challenges we have to get our thinking straight about this one item.  We seem to have the tendency to want to blame everyone else for our shortages, setbacks, boundaries, and failures in our lives.  Looking within ourselves is usually the last place we look to find the guilty party.  Of course, one must realize that we have to look at ourselves first in the search for any want, need or deficiency that we may be encountering and hopefully in advance of pointing our fingers at everyone else.  Like the old saying, we have “one finger pointing at someone or something else and four fingers pointing back at us.”