When I first started surfing, I had to spend at least 2-4 hours in the water at a time.

It was like there was a bug in my brain that if I didn't surf for at least 2 hours, it wasn't worth it or I wasn't enough.

I used to be the guy who'd spend 3, 5, even 8 hours per day in the gym when I traveled in the military and didn't have to concern myself with family responsibilities.

It was never enough.

The same bug plagued me inside my family.

If I didn't spend hours a day with my family, especially my kids, I was a sh*tty father.

Sex was always at least 45 minutes so that I could prove myself man enough to Luci.

She didn't care. I was only proving myself "man enough" for MYSELF! 🤦🏻‍♂️

This bug of massive time investments and "never enough" robbed me and my family of the true connection and passion I was always hunting for.

Once I could master the game of "Get in, get out!",

I could take back control of my life and become the master of myself!

Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode 🎙!

Create, grow, and OVERFLOW 🍯 with DESIRE inside your marriage!

#livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted