What if God isn't late—you're just too attached to your timeline? As men, we like having a plan. We want to know where we're going, how we're going to get there, and when it's going to happen. But following Jesus requires something much harder than making a plan: surrendering it. Psalm 69:13 says, "But as for me, my prayer is to you, O Lord. At an acceptable time, O God…" At an acceptable time. His time—not ours. In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, we talk about what it means to continue praying, trusting, and walking faithfully when God's timing doesn't match our expectations. Sometimes what feels like a delay may actually be preparation. The question isn't whether God will follow our timeline. The question is whether we will remain faithful when He doesn't. We'll discuss the difference between trusting God and trying to control the outcome, why waiting requires discipline, and how surrender allows us to experience greater peace even when we don't know what comes next. Your responsibility is obedience. God's responsibility is the outcome. And if you're ready to put that obedience into action, join the Strong Disciples 30-Day Challenge and spend the next 30 days strengthening your faith, fitness, and discipline. Commit. Trust. Let God.

Every man wants power. Every man wants peace. But too often, we search for both in the wrong places. We chase success, money, status, strength, recognition, and control—believing that if we can accumulate enough, accomplish enough, or become enough, we'll finally feel powerful and at peace. But the world can't give us what only Jesus can provide. True power isn't found in controlling everything around you. True peace isn't found when life finally goes according to your plan. Power and peace come from faithfully walking with Jesus. When you stop simply talking about your faith and begin stepping out in faith, something changes. You develop a confidence that circumstances can't give you—and circumstances can't take away. In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, we talk about what it means to ACT on your faith with courage, obedience, and boldness. Men, faith was never meant to remain passive. It's time to surrender the pursuit of worldly power, trust Jesus, and boldly live out what you say you believe. It's time to ACT on your faith and experience the power and peace of Jesus.

Why should I eat healthy and workout? Why should I take time out of my day to read and pray? Why should I take time for my wife and kids when I don't feel respected or appreciated? Is it really worth it to walk the path of a Disciple? In this episode Nilan tackles these questions and how to continue moving forward when God is calling you into something you're not sure you will recover from...

What if the reason you're struggling to hear God isn't because He's silent—but because you're still hiding? In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, we talk about something many Christian men wrestle with: wanting direction from God while struggling to have an honest conversation with Him. For years, I thought I needed to clean myself up before coming to God. Clean up my thoughts. Choose the right words. Control my emotions. Say the "right" prayer. But God doesn't need the polished version of you. He wants the real you. The frustrated you. The angry you. The confused you. The hurting you. The man who doesn't understand what God is doing but is willing to show up and tell Him the truth. God already knows what's happening in your heart. The question is whether you're willing to stop hiding and bring it to Him. Because surrender requires trust—and trust requires honest communication. In this episode, we talk about: Why men struggle to hear God while avoiding honest conversations with Him The lie that we need to "clean ourselves up" before approaching God What changed when I stopped giving God the polished version of myself Why frustration, anger, and confusion can be brought honestly before God The connection between communication, trust, and surrender Why transformation begins when we stop hiding You don't have to impress God with your prayers. Speak honestly. Be real. Be raw. Tell Him where you actually are. Then trust Him with what you've been carrying. "Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act." — Psalm 37:5

In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, I share a struggle I've wrestled with for a long time: not knowing how to tell my testimony. For years, I believed God was working in my life, but I couldn't clearly explain what He was doing. It wasn't until someone asked me a simple question—"What have you seen God do in your life?"—that I finally began to see my story of surrender unfold. I also share a conversation I had with a young man while working security at our county fair. As he wrestled with fear and uncertainty about asking a girl out, I was reminded that faith isn't about controlling the outcome—it's about surrendering the outcome to God and choosing obedience anyway. Too often, we mistake waiting on God for doing nothing. But biblical faith isn't passive. Faith moves. Faith obeys. Faith acts. Your testimony isn't just found in what God has already done—it's written every time you choose to trust Him enough to take the next faithful step. In this episode, I challenge you to ask yourself: What has God done in your life? Am I acting on my faith, or simply believing? Am I living by faith... or by fear? Because when we act in faith, God uses our story to point others to Jesus. And someone may be waiting to hear the testimony only you can tell.

In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, I share a personal battle I had this morning—questioning what God is doing in my life and wondering why it can feel like the same struggles keep repeating. While reading Psalm 37:1-8, verse 5 stopped me: "Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act." Those words forced me to ask a difficult question: Am I truly committed to trusting God, or am I just saying I trust Him? There is a difference between declaring commitment and living committed. I've struggled with this personally— saying I was committed to God, growth, discipline, and change, but my actions didn't always reflect my words. In this episode, we explore what it means to truly surrender our plans, trust God in the waiting, and commit our ways to Him even when we don't understand the process. The question I challenge every listener with is: What are you committed to—and does your life prove it? Because commitment isn't revealed by what we say when things are easy. Commitment is revealed by what we do when faith requires us to trust God before we see the outcome. "Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act." — Psalm 37:5

Your need to control the outcome may be the very thing keeping you from the outcome God intends for you. In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, Nilan Lansing shares how surrender — not striving — is the path to the life you truly desire. Through personal stories about dating, marriage, career transitions, and spiritual growth, Nilan reveals how letting go of control opened doors he could never have forced on his own. From meeting his wife after surrendering his plans, to unexpected career opportunities that came only after releasing his grip, this episode is a reminder that God's timing, purpose, and plan are always better than ours. You'll hear how surrender brings freedom, peace, and joy, and how Psalm 28:7 anchors the truth that "when my heart trusts in Him, I am helped." If you're facing a challenge, this episode will encourage you to use it as an opportunity to trust God more deeply and allow Him to shape the outcome. For men seeking accountability, brotherhood, and spiritual growth, Nilan also shares how the Strong Disciples Brotherhood is helping men rebuild their lives on the foundation of Christ. Free 7-Day Rebuild Challenge

Faith and hope aren't abstract ideas for men who want to live boldly — they're the backbone of real strength. Most men move through life driven by fear, not because they're weak, but because they've never been taught what to hope for or how to name what they truly want. This episode digs into that gap — the quiet confusion that keeps men stuck, restless, and reactive. We explore how faith gives direction, how hope gives fuel, and how surrender isn't defeat but the doorway to clarity. When a man finally understands what he's aiming for, fear loses its grip. He stops bracing for impact and starts building toward purpose. Ready to rebuild live in Faith? Try our Free 7-Day Rebuild Challenge to strengthen your faith, discipline and purpose. Click: 7-Day Rebuild

In this episode of the Surrendered Strength Podcast, I sit down with Jordan and Austin, the founders of Bearing the Flame, to talk about their mission of calling men to live with courage, conviction, and purpose in Christ. We dive into the heart behind Bearing the Flame, why authentic brotherhood is essential for every Christian man, and what inspired them to create the Men of Valor Conference. Together, we discuss the challenges men face today, the importance of pursuing biblical masculinity, and how God uses community to strengthen and transform us. If you're looking for encouragement, practical wisdom, and a reminder that you were never meant to walk alone, this conversation is for you. In this episode you'll discover: • The story behind Bearing the Flame. • Why Christian men need genuine brotherhood. • What to expect at the Men of Valor Conference this August. • How men can grow as leaders in their homes, churches, and communities. • Practical encouragement to pursue Christ with strength, humility, and purpose. Be sure to subscribe, share this episode with another man who needs to hear it, and learn more about the Men of Valor Conference by checking out the links in the show notes. Click Links: Bearing the Flame Men Of Valor Conference

Simplify Your Fitness and Faith Journey | Focus on the Basics In this video, we explore how overcomplicating fitness and faith can hold us back. Discover why sticking to fundamental principles—exercise and nutrition for fitness, prayer and the Bible for faith—can transform your life. Get back to the roots for lasting success!