Get Quiet About It Podcast

Survival Replaced Self: Why You Don't Know Yourself


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In this episode, Sherwanna Livingston explores the internal disconnect high-achieving women experience despite external success, and shares practical steps to reconnect with oneself through spiritual renewal, self-exploration, and joy-filled living. If you're feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, this episode offers insight and encouragement to rediscover your true self.

 

Key Topics

 

  • The concept of high-functioning women using achievement as a survival mechanism
  • How external success can mask internal disconnection and burnout
  • Understanding survival mode and its external appearance versus its hidden toll
  • The importance of slowing down and being still as a spiritual act
  • How to access the living water of Jesus for true peace and joy
  • Practical ways to reconnect with yourself: dancing, nature, travel, and curiosity
  • The significance of childlike wonder and dependence on God
  • How renewal shifts you into alignment with your spirit and true self
  • The role of community, experiences, and exploration in self-discovery
  • The power of intentional quiet and prayer in healing and renewal
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    Timestamps

     

    00:00 - Recognizing the disconnect of high-achieving women operating in survival mode

    02:21 - How survival becomes a primary strategy for external success
    03:46 - The signs of burnout behind achievement and productivity
    05:03 - Clarifying what survival mode really looks like
    06:12 - The role of people-pleasing and validation in external success
    07:23 - The cost of burnout despite visible fruit of labor
    08:40 - How adrenaline replaces joy in high-functioning survival tactics
    10:12 - Biblical encouragement to be still and trust God’s provision
    11:37 - The false perception of needing to control happiness and outcomes
    12:45 - God’s promise of living water that sustains beyond busyness
    14:28 - The difference between chaos and overwhelm and how to access peace
    15:34 - Drawing from the Spirit of God as the true source of lasting joy
    17:38 - The importance of stopping and asking yourself: Have I been trying to fix myself?
    18:31 - Why true renewal begins with surrender and connection to God
    20:33 - The shift from operating from the soul to spirit through renewal
    22:43 - Practical ways to enjoy life and reconnect with your authentic self
    26:40 - Embracing childlike wonder through dancing, nature, and curiosity
    29:08 - The significance of trying new things and embracing vulnerability
    31:54 - A personal story of travel, connection, and divine encounter in Cancun
    35:29 - The testimony of Jesus saving lives and living abundantly through faith
    37:04 - Introducing the Poker Social Experience as a moment of curiosity and connection
    37:57 - The necessity of quietness and spiritual renewal before stepping into new experiences
    41:44 - Reflective questions to deepen your self-awareness and spiritual connection
    43:33 - The invitation to get quiet and listen for God’s guidance in your renewal process

     

    Resources & Links

     

    • John 4:14 (Living Water)
    • Matthew 11:28 (Come to Me)
    • 2 Corinthians 5:17 (New Creation)
    • Psalm 46:10 (Be Still)
    • Her Story Agency (Event Host) (if applicable)
    • Event: Poker Social Experience (Link in show notes)
    • The game of Poker is not a sin. The bible speaks of greed and stewardship so personal conviction is necessary to decide what type of events you would like to attend or activities you engage in.

       

      Connect with Sherwanna
      • [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/sherwanna.Livingston)
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        Reflection & Practice

         

        • When was the last time you allowed yourself to enjoy something without expectations?
        • What simple joys have you been neglecting that could bring you life?
        • Are you relying on your own effort or drawing from the Spirit for peace?
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          Remember:

          True renewal and connection come from surrendering control, getting still, and trusting God's provision. Take time to quiet your mind and listen for His voice.

           

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