Happy 2019! The inaugural episode of But Here's My Thing is finally here! This episode welcomes in the new year with a bit of discussion on the aftermath of Surviving R. Kelly. Touching on why we victim shame, and getting back to self-love, black love and community. If you or someone you know needs to talk to someone check out www.talkspace.com. If you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault check out www.rainn.org. Also if you are interested in checking out Bella's book "The Tooth Tickler" send us an email to purchase your autographed copy today! Follow us on Instagram at butheresmything and email us at [email protected]

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