My queer identity is one that is rooted in my desire for freedom, nonconformity, and sexual fluidity. Here, I share my story of when I realized that I was queer and how that impacted my dating life. Well, the pandemic complicated the aforementioned a little more than I would have desired, but I'm still standing and trying to navigate dating with new weight, starter locs, and working for myself. I guess I don't sound like a "catch", but trust, I am still sweet holy honey.