My guest on this episode, Cici, had me crying, ready to fight and giving myself props for shedding relationships that did not give me what I needed.  Cici talked about her role in the BDSM lifestyle and how she became a swinger, but retired when love found her. She is still active in the swinger community as she knows that there are so few people of color in the community as a moderator and event planner. Now, this is the fifth person in a 'lifestyle' to say that people of color are missing out on opportunities to live their best life, so if you are afraid to venture out, it might be time to get a little courage.  Join Cici and I ask we take a little trip with a boozy coffee and Pinot Noir!