In this conversation, Sylvia, Dorca and Lydia chat about the expectations that we put on ourselves, the expectations our parents put on us and the expectations we put on our children. They reflect on their childhood experiences, the influence of their upbringing on their current lives, and the balance between faith and personal beliefs. The discussion highlights the importance of finding a supportive church community, the struggle with guilt and expectations in personal choices, and the freedom that comes from letting go of past burdens. They reflect on her relationship with her mother and how it has changed over time, emphasizing the healing power of understanding and choice in shaping one's identity and future.