In this thought-provoking episode, Laura explores how trauma, grief, burnout, neurodiversity, chronic stress, and life experiences shape the way people navigate the world. Drawing from both personal experience and psychological research, she challenges the idea that every struggle is a personal failure and examines how systems, environments, and nervous system responses influence human behavior.

From masking and survival mode to caregiving, emotional labor, and healing, this episode invites listeners to shift from asking, “What’s wrong with me?” to “What happened to me?”—and to approach themselves with greater understanding, compassion, and grace.

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Sources & Further Reading

For listeners who want to explore the ideas discussed in this episode more deeply:

• Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study (CDC & Kaiser Permanente)
• Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (The Body Keeps the Score)
• Brené Brown’s research on shame and vulnerability
• Dr. Stephen Porges’ Polyvagal Theory
• Dr. Damian Milton’s Double Empathy Problem
• Attachment Theory (John Bowlby & Mary Ainsworth)
• Research in psychology, neuroscience, trauma, burnout, neurodiversity, grief, emotional labor, and public health

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