Mike sits down with prior guest and friend of the podcat Heather Sullivan to talk about dating post divorce and as you grow older, the fears and hang ups people bring with them from previous marriages and relationships, how people handle dating with children and ex's in the picture, the politicization of dating, the fears people have of being hurt, the ridiculous expectations people have when looking for a partner, and how some use getting back in to the field as a chance to open up and let their freak out, while others close that part of themselves down permanently.