You cannot solve a problem that you do not take ownership of. This is critical for everyone but especially men. When we point the finger at everyone and everything else for our problems, we’re acting like a child, like a little boy. We must own our problems. We must call things for what they are and use it as our fuel to turn them into what they need to be. We cannot settle, we cannot tolerate thing man-boy nature inside of us. We must be tested, and we must step into the arena of life’s obstacles and fight them head on so that we become stronger as men.