This chapter from Dr. Wendy's book, The True Seeker's Guide To A Better Life, contains a process you can do to help identify those conditions and events during your childhood. Remember that most of us don't have truly accurate memory of our childhood. In fact, most of us have a "story" we tell ourselves about how things were. Here you can check your "story" against the perceptions you gain from doing this process. This process is an important step in doing the healing process.