They always say they’re cool with it... until the attention rolls in.

In this episode, I share what it was really like dating a man shorter than me—and the moment it all came to a head.

Picture this: I’m out with my partner when a taller man starts flirting with me. I handle it—firm and clear. But instead of appreciation, I get attitude. He’s offended.

And that’s when I realized: some men say they’re confident dating a taller woman… until the reality of the attention we get starts bruising their ego.

Let’s talk about it.

▪️ Do tall women get too much attention?

▪️ Is confidence in dating height-blind—or height-delusional?

▪️ And how do we navigate dating dynamics when “secure” doesn’t always mean secure long-term?

💬 I want to hear from other tall women:

Has a man ever told you he was cool with your height, only to flip months (or years) later?

Let’s unpack the height tension and the confidence cracks it exposes.