What if the biggest obstacle to your success isn't your competition, your schedule, or your circumstances… but your unchecked emotions?

In this episode of Quest for Success, Dr. Jerry Cunningham walks you through how to tame your inner dragon, those powerful negative emotions like anger, fear, resentment, anxiety, and shame that can either fuel your growth or sabotage your leadership, relationships, and goals. You'll learn how your brain actually processes emotional threats, why simply "calming down" doesn't work, and how proven psychological strategies like affect labeling, cognitive reappraisal, and physiological regulation can help you respond with strength instead of reaction.

If you've ever regretted something you said in the heat of the moment, held onto resentment longer than you should, or felt hijacked by stress, this episode will give you practical tools to take control before emotions take control of you.

Your dragon isn't the enemy. It just needs training.

Listen now and start building emotional mastery that strengthens every pillar of your life.

Takeaways

• Negative emotions like anger and fear have specific roles in our lives.
• Understanding the emotional network in our brains is crucial for emotional mastery.
• Affect labeling can help calm emotional responses and promote clear thinking.
• Suppression of emotions leads to negative outcomes, while regulation fosters well-being.
• Practicing emotional regulation techniques can improve relationships and reduce stress.
• Training our emotional responses requires consistent practice and awareness.
• Journaling and reflection can aid in emotional processing and understanding.
• Partnering with our emotions can transform them from destructive to constructive forces.
• Mastery of emotions is about direction, not domination.
• Emotional mastery is a lifelong journey that enhances personal growth.

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References for Further Learning

• Gross, J. J. (1998). The emerging field of emotion regulation: An integrative review. Review of General Psychology.

• Lieberman, M. D. et al. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity. Psychological Science.

• LeDoux, J. (1996). The Emotional Brain.

• Baumeister, R. F., & Tierney, J. (2011). Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength.