Get out of the mindset that people are better than you, that you can't reach their standard or status, that they're inherently above or better than you.

Money, status, confidence, love, these are all attainable + rejecting yourself first from your ideal lifestyle/relationship/self-concept will keep you settling for crumbs.

All the greats surpass their own standards and don't concern themselves with conforming to someone else's benchmark. You can't believe you deserve the best if you can't even imagine your proximity to the best.

Believe in an abundance mindset, believe in your efforts, believe you are limitless, believe you are worthy. Believe you have a seat at the table and that any standard that rejects your best effort is a redirection to a better seat, or a better table.