After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex. 

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Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That.

BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality.  https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality

Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752

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Famed actor and screenwriter Lena Waithe joins Brandon to talk about a sensitive subject for them both: Being brought up in households that don't support who you are. Lena has some amazing insight into what it means for parents to be curious and in community with their children. And it all stemmed from a game of This or That. 

Mother Hunger: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mother-hunger-how-adult-daughters-can-understand-and-heal-from-lost-nurturance-protection-and-guidance-kelly-mcdaniel/16265503?ean=9781401960858&next=t

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: https://bookshop.org/p/books/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents-lib-e-how-to-heal-from-distant-rejecting-or-self-involved-parents-lindsay-c-gibson/16712089?ean=9781626251700&next=t

Paris Is Burning: https://www.amazon.com/Paris-Burning-Dorian-Corey/dp/B0B8SXCPCJ?dplnkId=9ecd168f-6a18-498c-964d-b1f3b2ef2aaa&nodl=1

Master of None: Thanksgiving: https://www.netflix.com/title/80049714 

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The one-and-only Katya Zamolodchikova graces the pod with her presense to share a slew of messy stories, mostly involving butt plugs. Plus, Brandon and Katya play Fuck, Marry, Block with household appliances, anal danger and lube. 

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Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship. 

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Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks. 

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Hi, Tell Me Something Messy Fans! We want to share a new show, Outlaws with TS Madison.   

About the show: Is it on? Is it on?? Honey, is this thing recording?! TS Madison broke the Internet with six seconds and a 22-inch weave. And she didn’t just go viral — she became part of the culture, from "RuPaul's Drag Race" to Beyoncé’s "Renaissance." Her superpower? Her voice. Her kryptonite? Doesn’t exist. Her podcast? The one they never saw coming. Each week on "Outlaws," Madison sits down with living legends and rising stars who shed their armor and own their stories — turning side-eyes into sermons, pain into punchlines, and grief into galaxies. They speak when silence is safer. They dream when told to disappear. And they know what so many are taught to fear: that when you speak your truth, you open a portal. Some episodes will crack you up. Others may crack you open. Keep the tissues nearby, just in case. "Outlaws" is proud to be part of the Outspoken Network from iHeartPodcasts, in partnership with Turtle Run Entertainment.

Listen here and subscribe to Outlaws with TS Madison on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!

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Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. 

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Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. 

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Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. 

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