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  • Episode #17: The Truth Will Set You Free – Now What?

    Season One Finale

    In this final episode of Season One, we’re not just recapping—we’re reckoning.

    We’ve talked identity, money, boundaries, and purpose... but today, we face what it really takes to live free.

    Because the truth may set you free—but freedom still demands action.

    Shamika holds space for the hard questions:

    What are you still pretending not to know?
    What truth did you hear this season that you haven’t acted on?
    And what’s it going to cost if you don’t?

    This episode is about honoring the clarity you already have—and challenging yourself to stop sitting in it.

    If you’ve been stuck in reflection, it’s time to step into decision. Because there is no next level without NEXT MOVES.

    We wrap the season with a soul-led affirmation to anchor what you’ve learned—and a clear call to stop waiting and start moving.

    In This Episode:

    • The importance of owning one's reality,
    • Why knowing the truth isn’t the same as living it
    • The gap between knowing and doing,
    • And the necessity of embracing one's true self despite fear.
    • Chapters:

      00:00 – Season One Reflection and Growth
      05:23 – Creating Your Own Reality
      07:20 – The Knowing-Doing Gap
      09:48 – Embracing Your True Self
      11:26 – Redefining Worth and Purpose
      14:15 – Taking Action and Moving Forward

      This Week’s Affirmation:

      “I am no longer confused—I’m choosing.
      I don’t need more time—I need more trust.
      I will not shrink for safety or stall for approval.
      I honor my truth. I embody my purpose. I take the next bold step.
      I walk in full alignment—right now.”

      Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:

      If you’re stuck between what you know and what you’re willing to do—
      It’s time to face what’s really in the way.
      This isn’t about finding answers. It’s about trusting the ones you’ve already received.

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      Final Word:

      This may be the end of Season One…
      But your work is just beginning.

      Until next time—

      Own your Truth.
      Claim your Power.
      Live your Freedom.

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      IG: @your_goal_digger
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      17 min
    • Episode #16: Money, Power & Worthiness – Breaking Through Financial Blocks

      In this episode of Tell Your Truth, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw pulls back the curtain on the real root of most money blocks: self-worth.

      She doesn’t sugarcoat it.

      Your financial reality?
      It’s not just about how much you earn. It’s a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve.

      This episode dives deep into the connection between money, power, and identity—exposing how early childhood experiences, generational beliefs, and subconscious programming shape how we give, receive, and hold wealth.

      Shamika blends science, spirit, and lived experience to help listeners rewrite the money stories that keep them undercharging, overgiving, or clinging to overflow in fear.

      Because true financial freedom doesn’t come from hustle—it comes from alignment.

      Listeners will walk away with a fresh understanding of how to align their mindset, expand their capacity, and embody the version of themselves who can hold abundance with ease.

      Takeaways

      • Your financial reality is a reflection of your worth.
      • Money is a mindset that requires a shift in self-concept.
      • Wealth without worthiness leaves you searching for approval.
      • Up to 95% of financial habits are subconscious.
      • You attract what you feel safe receiving.
      • Affirmations without healing won't work.
      • Purpose work deserves to be profitable.
      • You are not too much; your dreams are valid.
      • Misalignment, not money, is the root of evil.
      • You must own your worth to receive abundance.
      • Chapters

        00:00 The Mirror of Money and Self-Worth

        05:33 The Science of Financial Habits

        08:07 Spirituality and Money Mindset

        10:48 Rewriting Your Money Story

        13:36 Affirmations and Action Steps

        16:00 Conclusion and Call to Action

        Links

        • Book A Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call
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        • 20 min
        • Episode #15: When the Vision Feels Too Big

          What if the vision isn’t too big...

          What if you’re just trying to carry it with an outdated identity?

          In this powerful episode, Shamika tells the truth about what it really feels like to carry a big vision with shaky faith. The conversation explores the relationship between self-doubt and the expansive nature of one's calling, emphasizing that discomfort is a natural part of the growth process. If you’ve ever looked at what God showed you and thought, ‘How am I supposed to pull that off?’—this conversation is for you. We’re talking identity, fear, and what it means to stretch even when you don’t have the full picture.

          We’re talking:

          • What “overwhelm” really means in your purpose journey
          • The neuroscience behind resistance + spiritual alignment
          • How to stretch your identity to match your calling
          • The 5 practical steps to move forward without proof
          • Why shrinking is not humility—it’s sabotage
          • And if you’re tired of doubting whether you’re really the one to carry the vision?

            This episode will remind you:
            God doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.

            Chapters

            00:00 Embracing the Divine Invitation

            12:14 Reframing Fear as Growth

            19:08 Taking Aligned Action

            24:11 Shifting from Vision to Value

            Resources & Links:

            • Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call → https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call
            • Grab your HeadGame Wrap → headgamewraps.etsy.com
            • 26 min
            • Episode #14: The Company You Keep – How Your Circle is Shaping Your Success

              Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the right things—praying, planning, showing up—and still feel stuck?

              In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika gets real about one of the most overlooked barriers to growth: your circle.

              You don’t just need strategy to evolve—you need alignment in your environment.

              We’re breaking down the 3 types of people in your life (Elevators, Enablers, Drainers), how to spot them, and what to do once you’ve identified the patterns.

              You’ll also learn:

              • Why some relationships feel loyal but are actually trauma bonds
              • How to stop confusing “nice” people with aligned people
              • Why your nervous system calibrates to the people around you
              • How to set boundaries without guilt or isolation
              • What neuroscience and quantum energy say about choosing the right circle
              • This is not about cutting people off out of fear. It’s about choosing your frequency with intention.

                Plus, a powerful affirmation to recalibrate your energy and call in soul-aligned relationships.

                Chapters

                00:00 The Importance of Your Circle

                07:11 Shifting Your Mindset for Growth

                09:12 Identifying Your Circle: Elevators, Enablers, and Drainers

                11:51 Taking Action: Auditing Your Relationships

                14:29 Building Your Next Level Network

                16:56 Affirmations for Attracting Supportive Relationships

                Mentioned in This Episode:

                Book Your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:
                https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call

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                19 min
              • Episode #13: Alignment Over Hustle – Work Smarter, Not Harder

                In this episode, Shamika breaks down one of the biggest myths ambitious women have been sold: that hustle guarantees success.

                From staying up until 3 a.m. to burning out in the name of "discipline," she shares her own wake-up call and why alignment—not over-efforting—is the true pathway to peace, prosperity, and purpose.

                If you’ve ever felt stuck even though you’re doing “everything right”—updating your LinkedIn, taking on extra work, attending every webinar—but still not getting the opportunities, clients, or clarity you crave…

                This episode is your reminder that your energy—not just your effort—is what’s calling the shots.

                Shamika walks you through the mindset, spiritual, and energetic shifts that purpose-seeking women must make to stop performing and start receiving.

                Whether you're a professional contemplating entrepreneurship or already building something behind the scenes, this is the episode that helps you reset from hustle to alignment—without guilt.

                What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
                • Why working harder isn’t always working smarter
                • The truth about burnout and what it’s really costing you
                • How to shift from overworking to aligned action
                • The Law of Attraction perspective most professionals ignore
                • The key to attracting opportunities, clients, and clarity faster
                • 3 tactical ways to embody alignment and protect your frequency
                • Powerful Insights + Takeaways:

                  You don’t attract what you say you want—you attract what you believe you deserve.

                  The universe doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to alignment.

                  You’re not tired because you’re working hard. You’re tired because you’re out of energetic alignment.

                  Links & Resources:

                  Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call

                  → https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call
                  A transformational 1:1 session to reset your energy, refine your next move, and activate your aligned path.

                  Grab your HeadGame Wraps

                  → https://headgamewraps.etsy.com
                  Because when your mindset is rising, your crown should sit right too.

                  Affirmation of the Week:

                  “I align with ease. I attract with trust.

                  I no longer chase—what’s mine finds me.”

                  Say it. Feel it. Live it.

                  Next Week on Tell Your Truth:

                  Episode 14 – The Company You Keep: How Your Circle Is Shaping Your Success

                  Your environment either elevates you or keeps you stagnant. In the next episode, we’re unpacking the power of your people—and why it might be time for a circle audit.

                  Let’s Connect:

                  If this episode spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with a woman who needs it.

                  Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @your_goal_digger when you post your biggest takeaway on IG or LinkedIn.

                  Chapters

                  00:00 The Hustle Culture Myth

                  02:58 Shifting from Hustle to Alignment

                  05:56 Manifestation and Identity

                  08:50 Practical Steps to Align with Your Goals

                  11:46 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts

                  16 min
                • Episode #12: Playing Small is a Choice – Own Your Greatness

                  What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re unclear… but because you’re still shrinking?

                  In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw discusses the concept of playing small and how it is often a choice driven by fear and societal expectations. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind our survival instincts, the importance of self-trust, and the need to define success on our own terms. Shamika encourages listeners to take bold actions and affirm their power, emphasizing that true growth comes from moving beyond fear and seeking alignment with one's true self.

                  You’ll learn:

                  • How emotional, social, and unfamiliar fears convince you to hide
                  • Why your nervous system resists growth (and how to rewire it)
                  • The truth about spiritual obedience and quantum alignment
                  • What it really means to define success on your own terms
                  • How the Soul Goals™ movement was born from a quiet “yes”
                  • And most importantly?

                    You’ll be challenged to make one bold move—this week.

                    Because playing small is a choice.

                    And so is showing up fully.

                    Chapters

                    00:00 The Choice to Play Small

                    08:43 Reprogramming the Nervous System

                    14:06 Defining Success on Your Own Terms

                    19:43 Taking Bold Action and Moving Forward

                    Mentioned in this episode:

                    Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call

                    Grab your Head Game Wraps

                    22 min
                  • Episode #11: The Season of the Individual— Coming Home to Yourself

                    In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika Brown-Upshaw shares a profound spiritual awakening that brought her into deep stillness, presence, and peace. It wasn’t loud or dramatic—but it changed everything.

                    What unfolded was a divine moment of oneness, where Shamika wasn’t thinking about God or praying to God—she was with God. That moment revealed a powerful truth: we’ve been taught to look outward for identity, comfort, and direction… but the real answers come from within.

                    Shamika explores what happens when we stop chasing external markers of safety—like titles, paychecks, or job listings—and start reconnecting with our soul. She speaks directly to those who feel stuck or uncertain, especially those trying to return to a version of comfort that may no longer exist.

                    Throughout the episode, Shamika invites listeners into a conversation about choosing clarity over comfort, peace over panic, and truth over illusion. She shares her own personal shift into a more soul-led life, the freedom she’s now experiencing, and how you can begin shifting gracefully—without needing all the answers today.

                    You’ll hear about:

                    • A quiet moment that sparked deep reconnection with self and Spirit
                    • Why striving and “fixing” no longer work in a season calling us inward
                    • The illusion of external comfort—and what to seek instead
                    • The two types of people rising in this shift (and how to know which one you are)
                    • What it means to live from the inside out—and how to begin doing it
                    • If you’re ready to get honest, get still, and return to who you really are—this episode is your homecoming.

                      Chapters

                      00:00 Spiritual Awakening and Inner Peace

                      07:48 The Season of the Individual

                      10:59 Shifting Towards Clarity and Purpose

                      12:58 Creating Reality from Within

                      14:20 Reconnecting with Your Truth

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                      17 min
                    • Episode #10: Stop Waiting for ‘Motivation’ – The Truth About Self-Discipline

                      You’re not stuck because you’re unmotivated—you’re stuck because you’re waiting for a feeling to do what discipline was designed for.

                      In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw delves into the myth of motivation and emphasizes the importance of discipline as a sustainable strategy for personal growth. The conversation explores how motivation is a fleeting emotional state influenced by various factors, while discipline is a deliberate choice that builds systems for long-term success. Shamika discusses the significance of aligning one's actions with their purpose and the role of energy and frequency in attracting desired outcomes. Practical steps for creating structure and discipline in daily life are provided, along with affirmations to reinforce positive habits.

                      If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready”... this is your moment to move.

                      You'll Learn:

                      • Motivation is not a long-term strategy; it's a temporary emotional state.
                      • Discipline is a choice that builds systems independent of motivation.
                      • Real freedom requires structure and support in your life.
                      • Your thoughts and actions create energetic signals that attract similar frequencies.
                      • Discipline helps you become a vibrational match for your desired life.
                      • Building habits around healing is essential for sustainable growth.
                      • You need to create boundaries around your energy to protect your focus.
                      • Simplifying systems makes it easier to show up consistently.
                      • Aligning your daily routines with your priorities fosters peace and clarity.
                      • Affirmations can reinforce the habits and mindset you want to cultivate.
                      • Chapters

                        00:00 The Myth of Motivation

                        02:53 Understanding Discipline and Its Importance

                        05:46 The Role of Energy and Frequency

                        09:08 The Journey from Motivation to Discipline

                        11:58 Building a Sustainable Life

                        15:08 Creating Structure for Freedom

                        17:46 Practical Steps for Discipline

                        21:11 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts

                        Grab your HeadGame Wraps → https://headgamewraps.etsy.com

                        27 min
                      • Episode #9 — The Excuse Game: Why You’re Not Really “Too Busy” or “Not Ready”

                        You’ve told yourself it’s timing.

                        You’ve told yourself it’s discernment.
                        You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.”

                        But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved.

                        In this episode of Tell Your Truth, we’re breaking down the fear behind your most convincing excuses—the ones dressed up as wisdom, stewardship, and logic.

                        Because here’s the truth:

                        You’re not too busy.
                        You’re not unprepared.
                        You’re not waiting on God.

                        You’re just scared.

                        And that fear has been showing up as perfectionism, delay, over-responsibility, and overwhelm.

                        In this episode, Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the internal struggle between the part of us that is ready to rise and the part that holds us back. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our capacity, the illusion of readiness, and the detrimental effects of procrastination. Shamika encourages listeners to confront their fears, take small actions, and reclaim their power to live authentically. The episode serves as a call to action for those feeling stuck to break free from excuses and embrace their truth.

                        You’ll learn:

                        • Why “too busy” is often just a boundary issue in disguise
                        • How “I’m not ready” becomes the most dangerous stall tactic
                        • How excuses rewire your brain and block your energy
                        • Why faith and fear can’t lead at the same time
                        • What to do when you’re tired of hiding behind logic and ready to move in alignment
                        • This is the permission slip your next level has been waiting for.

                          Plus, Shamika shares the real reason this podcast almost didn’t happen—and how she finally stopped shrinking and started walking in full obedience.

                          Chapters

                          00:00 The Quiet War Within: Rising vs. Stalling

                          02:53 Understanding Capacity: Time vs. Space

                          06:01 The Illusion of Readiness: Fear in Disguise

                          08:58 The Knowing-Doing Gap: Overcoming Mental Barriers

                          11:56 The Cost of Delay: Power and Progress

                          15:01 Living Your Truth: The Journey of Authenticity

                          17:47 Reclaiming Power: Steps to Move Forward

                          21:12 Breaking the Cycle: From Fear to Action

                          23:53 Conclusion: Embracing Your Truth and Power

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                          28 min
                        • EPISODE #8: Breaking the Cycle: Why It’s So Easy to Go Back—Even When You Know Better

                          You’ve healed. You’ve journaled. You’ve done the inner work.

                          So why does it still feel like you’re circling the same mountain?

                          In this episode, we’re talking about why your patterns keep repeating, even when you know better.

                          Because growth alone doesn’t break the cycle—structure does.

                          We’ll dive into:

                          • The real reason you default to old habits (even when you’ve outgrown them)
                          • How your nervous system, beliefs, and emotional memory keep pulling you back
                          • What your schedule, space, and daily choices say about who you believe you are
                          • The role of structure, identity, and support in rewiring your patterns—for good
                          • And I’m sharing a personal story that opened my eyes to the subtle ways I was still living from my old self…

                            Even after I had claimed my freedom.

                            This is the episode that will connect your healing to your habits—so you can stop just surviving transformation and actually start living it.

                            Key Takeaways:
                            • Healing without structure is a setup for relapse
                            • Awareness won’t override a system built to survive your past
                            • You don’t need more effort—you need more access: to God, to your truth, to strategy that supports your evolution
                            • You can’t build your future from habits that belong to your past
                            • Mentioned in this Episode:
                              • Bob Proctor: “The subconscious doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined—it only knows what’s repeated.”
                              • Maxwell Maltz: “You cannot consistently perform in a way that’s inconsistent with how you see yourself.”
                              • Weekly Affirmation:

                                'I break every cycle that no longer serves me. I am not just healed—I am rewired. I am creating something new.'

                                Your Next Step:

                                If this episode called you out—and called you forward—Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call.

                                We’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and get clear on what your soul is actually calling you to do next.

                                → Book your Clarity Call now

                                And don’t forget to grab your HeadGame Wraps at headgamewraps.etsy.com

                                Because to change anything about your life, you’ve got to get your head in the game first.

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                                • Chapters

                                  00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Familiarity

                                  08:15 Understanding Subconscious Patterns

                                  14:15 Steps to Break the Cycle

                                  18:09 The Power of Structure and Support

                                  24 min

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                                If your reality isn’t matching your vision, then guess what? it’s time to get honest.