That Auntie

An uncle wrote in and he is pissed.

His wife inherited a 4-bedroom house

and a practically new car from her sister.

She gave both to her daughter.

Without saying a word to him.

Now he wants to keep his paycheck to himself.

That Auntie! has something to say about all of it.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

A mother died from cancer and left 5 kids behind.

She made provisions for the youngest two.

But nobody knows what happens to her

23-year-old son with physical and mental disabilities.

His father has never been in his life.

His grandmother says she is too tired.

And the family is divided.

That Auntie! is sitting with this one carefully.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

How many people in your life actually know

the real you?

Not the version you created for them.

Not the one you show at work.

Not the one that keeps the peace.

The real you.

That Auntie! is back In The Spirit with

Susan L. Taylor covering chapters 16 and 17 —

Intimacy Binds Us Heart To Heart

and Take Time To Love.

And this one is going to make you pick up

the phone when we are done.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

We are continuing our conversation on the no contact movement. It seems like everyone is cutting off relatives lately, but we need to look at whether this is a legitimate path to healing or a way to avoid accountability.

This discussion covers how to set healthy family boundaries without weaponizing silence. We look at the difference between protecting your peace and simply running from conflict. Not every disagreement is generational trauma, and we are here to help you figure out the difference.

We talk about when to walk away from a toxic family and when to stick it out to work through the issues. It is time to look at the reality of these decisions for your future.

Subscribe for weekly family conversations that keep it real. Drop a comment—do you think no contact is a last resort or the new default?

Going no contact with your parents is trending.

But is it always the right move?

That Auntie! is having the conversation that

social media does not want to have.

Because not every disagreement is trauma.

And not every parent is toxic.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

Two write-ins. One painful truth.

My parents have a favorite child.

And everybody knows who it is.

That Auntie! is sitting with two real situations

today — one about a brother who gets treated like

royalty and one about a double standard that

exposed the whole family.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

A 54 year old mother wrote in with one mission.

Get rid of her son's girlfriend.

Her son is 25. A Georgia Tech engineer.

His girlfriend is 29. A single mother of two.

And mama is not having it.

But That Auntie! has something to say about that.

We don't care about your feelings as much

as we care about your future.

A mom called another mom to say she caught her son

having phone sex with her 16 year old daughter.

And the girl's mom said — girl, be thankful

they haven't done it for real yet.

That Auntie! is having the conversation most

parents are still avoiding.

We don't care about your feelings as much as

We care about your future.

An uncle wrote in with one of the most

difficult situations we have ever received.

His daughter is marrying a woman.

He is not going to the wedding.

His wife went anyway.

Now their marriage is on the line too.

That Auntie! is not here to judge.

We are here to have the conversation

that most families are avoiding.

We don't care about your feelings.

We care about your future.

She was at a work training minding her business.

Then she heard a voice call her name.

She did not even have to turn around.

She already knew.

After 30 years — her knees still buckled.

That Auntie! is sitting with this one carefully

because the feelings are real even when

the answer is clear.

We don't care about your feelings.

We care about your future.