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That bitch owns her shit and it's literally making her more money.
In this episode, Kim breaks down one of the most expensive habits women entrepreneurs have: refusing to fully see themselves. Not because they're not talented. Not because they don't have the receipts. But because somewhere along the way, they decided that owning their greatness was too much, too braggy, too risky.
Spoiler: that decision is costing you thousands, possibly millions, a year.
Kim pulls from a recent conversation with guest Abrielle about the "quiet standard" that doubled (then tripled) her rates practically overnight, not because she changed her skills, but because she finally saw the value she'd been sitting on. Then Kim gets real about her own experience as a Human Design Reflector, why seeing herself is her greatest challenge, and why your perceived value is the single most powerful lever in your business.
This episode is a direct line to the part of you that already knows you're the fucking shit, and just needs permission to stop hiding it.
HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why not owning who you are is quietly costing you millions
→ The Abrielle story: how seeing your own value forces the market to respond
→ Why your resume brag energy needs to show up in your business too
→ The difference between arrogance and fully owning your power
→ How your perceived value affects your messaging, pricing, offers, and opportunities
→ Why protecting other people from your greatness is actually a trauma response
→ What congruence between internal value and external positioning actually looks like
→ Kim on why her brain is worth millions — and how she knows
0:00 Intro
1:30 The real cost of not owning who you are
4:00 The Abrielle story: from assistant energy to premium pricing overnight
7:15 Why your resume brag energy should show up in your business
9:45 "It's not bragging, it just is" — owning your greatness without apology
12:00 Kim's Human Design Reflector moment: the hardest person to see is yourself
14:30 There's nothing wrong with having more greatness than the people around you
17:00 Why hiding your value is a hypervigilance, trauma-based response
19:45 Perceived value: the internal thermometer that changes everything external
22:30 Closing the skill gap vs. owning the value you already have
25:00 "Everything I touch turns to gold" — Kim on her own receipts
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She left her job as an assistant principal mid-year, moved to a new city where she knew nobody, bought a house with zero income, and had two kids depending on her. And she did it anyway — on nothing but a vision.
Kim sits down with her own creative brand director, Abrielle Laurent, and they go ALL the way in. From growing up in New Orleans to climbing to the top of her education career, leaving it behind to move to Texas, teaching Canva tutorials on Instagram, and evolving into a sought-after creative director and brand strategist — Abrielle's story is a masterclass in choosing yourself before you have the evidence to back it up.
This one is for every woman who's been told her pivot doesn't make sense on paper.
We cover:
• Why Abrielle walked away from a career she'd worked years to build — mid-year, with no plan B
• What it actually felt like to move to a new city with no income, two kids, and a husband on the edge of a breakdown
• How a pandemic journal side project turned into a full business pivot
• The truth about reinventing yourself in public — and why it's harder than it looks
• How she went from Canva tutorials to becoming a creative director for top entrepreneurs
• The identity shifts required every time you level up (and how to coach yourself through them)
• What it means to build a "legacy brand" and uncover your true body of work
0:00 Intro — Meet Abrielle Laurent
2:00 What a "That Bitch" moment actually means
2:45 The decision: leaving assistant principal mid-year
3:45 Moving to Texas with no job, no income, two kids
5:30 The fear of reinventing yourself in public
6:00 No income, new home, and a husband freaking out
7:15 Why she left New Orleans — and what Texas represented
8:00 Moving before you have the evidence
8:15 How Abrielle came into Kim's mastermind
8:45 Teaching Canva on Instagram — where it all started
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"Where are you not being that bitch right now?" This is the question Kim comes back to again and again in this episode, and she promises the minute you ask yourself, your subconscious will tell you the truth.
In this solo, Kim gets into the standards nobody wants to talk about, the ones she says could get her canceled, but that actually explain how she built what she's built. She starts with the hardest one: your circle.
She'll tell you straight that the people around you probably aren't where you want to be, and walks through exactly how she grew a network of powerful women from zero — no virality, no big events, just genuine (non-pitchy, non-fangirl) DM conversations, one woman at a time.
From there she covers the standards that govern how you actually operate day to day, and why your personal life and your business results are never separate — with real client stories to prove it.
We cover:
If you want the results, you have to raise the standard. End of story.
CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro — the standards that must exist
1:30 Who's really in the Femme Power Grid (and why it's the standard)
3:00 Standard #1: your circle probably sucks
5:00 Your network equals your net worth
7:30 The unsexy way Kim built a network of powerful women online
10:30 Why you feel like you don't belong in the room — and how to stop
13:00 Insecurity is a repellent she can smell
15:00 Standard: are you actually doing the fucking thing?
17:30 Keeping commitments to yourself builds security
19:00 Standard: shifting your energetic state on purpose
23:00 Why your external circumstances shouldn't run your state
25:30 "Who you are in one place is who you are everywhere"
27:00 Why personal problems ARE your business problems
28:30 The client being disrespected at home AND by her clients
32:00 Where are you NOT being that bitch right now?
34:00 The standards you've quietly let slip
36:30 Real client transformations that prove it works
41:00 Raise your fucking standards — end of story
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Madi Maple went from hiding crop tops and nose rings inside a Mormon community to building a 7-figure confidence coaching empire — 19 sold-out retreats, 1,000+ paid clients, and 130,000 women transformed through her free content alone. And she did it by being more herself, not less.
Kim and Madi get into the real story: what it actually cost Madi to leave the Mormon church, what true confidence is built on (hint: it's not a mindset hack), and why the women who are most visibly "themselves" online are still doing the deep work of becoming more.
This one is for you if you've ever dimmed yourself down to fit in — and wondered what would happen if you just... didn't.
We cover:
• Growing up in a 90% Mormon community north of Salt Lake City and what it cost her to be herself
• Why hiding parts of yourself (even small ones) makes it impossible to build real confidence
• The layers of authenticity that exist even when you think you've already arrived
• How Madi built to 7 figures and sold out 19 retreats by refusing to morph for an audience
• Why "that bitch" is not a destination — it's an infinite devotion to becoming
• The trap of accidentally adopting someone else's philosophy when you're surrounded by online noise
• What it actually looks like to go deeper into your own authenticity as your business grows
0:00 Intro
1:15 Kim introduces Madi Maple — confidence coach, retreat host, DJ, cat mom
2:20 Why showing up with audacity is the first move toward being known
3:00 The drunk girl and a cigarette reel — why being fully yourself online is the whole strategy
4:00 The nuance: even the most confident women are still becoming
5:00 The infinite journey of "that bitch" — why you never fully arrive
6:15 What trolls miss when they don't get it
6:50 Madi's origin story — growing up in Mormon culture north of Salt Lake City
8:00 When 85-90% of your school is Mormon and being yourself isn't an option
8:45 Coffee, crop tops, and rap music — the small things that got her in trouble
9:10 "You're going to hell and never see your family again" — the real stakes of leaving
9:45 Hiding parts of herself depending on who she was around
10:00 The septum ring she had to flip up in her nose — and what that symbolizes
10:30 You cannot love yourself if you are not being yourself
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Kim's COO looked at her and said: "I genuinely expect you to talk to somebody, and of course they're gonna pay you. Have you met you?" That one line became this entire episode.
In this solo, Kim breaks down the real reason opportunities, collaborations, and paid clients keep landing in her lap — and it's not luck. It's identity. It's self-concept. It's the way she carries herself into every room, every conversation, every stage. She walks through how she built that self-concept from scratch after a childhood in survival mode, why she believes developing an identity was a "luxury" she never had, and the exact moment in 2020 she realized she didn't know who she was at all.
She also gets into the leadership trap 99% of people are stuck in: outsourcing their decisions so they don't have to be responsible for the outcome — treating mentors "like your mommy" instead of letting them stretch you.
We cover:
If you want the bigger life, the bigger money, and the reputation — this is the inside game nobody tells you about.
CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro — the COO comment that started it all
1:45 "Have you met you?" — turning every conversation into opportunity
3:00 Why your identity commands money, respect, and collaborations
4:30 Developing self-concept when you grew up in survival mode
6:30 The 2020 awakening: "I don't even know who the fuck I am"
9:00 Being bold enough to say you deserve to be paid
11:00 None of this is luck — it's inner work on purpose
13:00 The coach who told her "your energy says don't pay me"
15:00 Why most people think they're self-leading (and aren't)
17:30 Following society's blueprint isn't leadership
20:00 Treating your mentors like your mom — the habit she had to drop
23:00 Picking a brain vs. outsourcing the decision
26:00 The $1,800/month coach and the two-year ROI
30:00 Why women crave someone else making the decision
33:00 Where are YOU outsourcing your decision-making?
36:00 You can be anyone and make millions — pick who you are
40:00 Cornfields, comped meals, and the room going quiet
44:00 Nerd, cool girl, and that bitch — owning all of it
47:00 Show them who you are, don't tell them
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Suzie Cuthbertson told her teacher to sit down and let her read the story, on day one of school, before she could even read. That energy never left. In this episode, Kim sits down with her business partner, subconscious expander, shadow expert, and business strategist to the top 1% for a raw conversation about what it actually takes to become that bitch, and stay her.
They get into the real moments: accelerating up the corporate ladder against a room of five men, being told to choose between a child and a career, walking away from a director and shareholder role that was "killing her," and building the Femme Power Grid to six figures in its first seven days.
We cover:
This one's a masterclass in conviction, standards, and refusing to abandon yourself on the way to what you want.
CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro — welcoming Suzie Cuthbertson
2:14 The first "power panties" moment at age five
5:36 Being that bitch in a male-dominated corporate career
7:00 Five men, one job, and "better luck next time"
9:38 Why conviction and certainty is what actually sells
11:34 "It's not the woman you see, it's the woman you feel"
11:50 Told to choose between having a child and her career
15:38 Managing 110 people at 19 — how she won the room
18:41 Leadership born from trauma vs. nurture
21:55 Handing in her notice: "that job was killing you"
23:38 The niggle, the conflict, and the castle that's coming down anyway
26:42 Why that bitch moves when it's uncomfortable — not convenient
28:27 Building the Femme Power Grid to six figures in 7 days
31:50 Getting the redhead boy, the red dog, the country house
36:33 That Bitch Files: the belief she deleted
38:00 The standard that made her money
38:59 What she'd teach her younger self
42:36 You know you're that bitch when...
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Kim had the most profound experience of her life this past weekend — and she's not holding anything back.
After 30+ journeys with psilocybin and LSD, microdosing for nine months straight, and years of deep spiritual work, Kim sat with DMT for the first time. What happened inside those few minutes completely cracked her open — angels, creation, God, and a remembrance she can barely put into human language.
This episode is raw, real, and unlike anything she's shared before. Whether you're curious about psychedelics, deep in your own spiritual awakening, or just here because a Threads post brought you, you're in the right place.
HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why Kim believes anyone can transform their life — no matter how hellacious their past
→ Her background: trauma, dissociation, 30+ years of living disconnected from herself
→ Growing up Lutheran, dancing with atheism, working at a church for 11 years, and landing in a full spiritual awakening
→ The microdosing protocol that completely changed her life (9 months, structured cycles)
→ What Kim sees at the center of every woman's matriarch line on mushrooms — every single time
→ How her husband received DMT at a wedding from a stranger (divine timing, literally)
→ His experience: Mother Earth, Gaia, unconditional love, and grieving his father
→ Kim's DMT experience: being transported inside an angel made entirely of living creation
→ Seeing hundreds of lifetimes flash before her — births, bike rides, businesses, entire human stories
→ Hundreds of angels rushing toward her, each wanting to show her what they'd been creating
→ The feeling she can only describe as: "Mom, look how proud I am — look what I've been making while you were gone"
→ Why this experience isn't religious — and what it actually is
→ How to use psychedelics with intentionality (the exact intentions Kim sets every time)
→ Her core belief: the more you become who you are outside this physical body, the more you get everything you want
0:00 Intro — Are You Ready to Become That Bitch?
1:30 Welcome to New Listeners (and Why Kim's Story Matters)
3:00 Kim's Background: Trauma, Dissociation, and Why She Believes Anyone Can Do This
5:15 Her Spiritual Journey: Lutheran Upbringing, Atheism, and Working at a Church
7:00 How Psychedelics First Cracked Her Open — Psilocybin, LSD, and Feeling Unconditional Love
8:45 The Microdosing Protocol That Changed Everything (9 Months, 4x/Week)
10:30 What Kim Sees Every Time: Mother Mary and the Matriarch Line
12:00 How They Got DMT — The Wedding Story and Divine Timing
14:15 Her Husband's DMT Experience: Gaia, Mother Earth, and Grieving His Father
17:30 Kim Goes In: Her Intention Before the DMT Journey
19:00 Inside the Angel — Rings, Creation, and Living Beings
22:00 Watching Entire Lifetimes Flash in Two Minutes
25:00 Hundreds of Angels Rushing In — "Look What I've Been Creating"
27:30 What She Can Barely Put Into Human Language
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Emily Rose went from growing up in poverty with a single immigrant mother to becoming a 20-year music industry veteran, global head of AI at one of the biggest companies in the world, AND running a boutique luxury hospitality business — all while building a coaching brand and hosting live events. Her secret? She gets whatever the f*ck she wants. And she knows exactly why.
Kim and Emily go deep on the quantum mechanics and wealth energetics behind Emily's unapologetic, multi-industry success — the belief systems most people never unlock, the religious and societal conditioning keeping women small, and what it actually means to be a limitless divine creator.
We cover:
• Why Emily's bio keeps getting longer — and what that has to do with quantum mechanics
• Growing up in poverty and how "The Secret" cracked everything open in her early 20s
• The lag between your quantum field and your 3D reality (and why your life right now is just a mirror)
• Deprogramming religious and conservative conditioning that kept her submissive and small
• Why your passions aren't accidents — they're assignments
• Breaking generational cycles: why our generation is the black sheep built to do it differently
• The American Dream conditioning that's keeping women from their aligned path
• What "remembering" actually means in a spiritual awakening — and why it clicks so fast for some people
0:00 Intro — Kim and Emily on being that bitch
2:10 Emily's bio keeps growing — here's why
3:15 "I get whatever the f*ck I want" — what that actually means spiritually
4:05 Growing up in poverty with a single immigrant mother
4:35 How The Secret changed everything in her early 20s
5:30 Being the black sheep who breaks generational cycles
6:00 Quantum mechanics 101 — your reality is coded from within
6:45 The lag between your quantum field and your 3D reality
7:10 Kim's spiritual awakening — the human that fought the belief
7:35 This 3D world is the part that's not real
8:00 Growing up with conservative religious programming — and deprogramming it
9:00 The American Dream conditioning keeping women trapped
9:35 Choosing your aligned path is a that bitch move in itself
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Kim breaks down the one question that changed everything for her — and why it's the only question you need to ask yourself when you're ready to stop settling and start living like that bitch.
She takes you to the Jaws Bridge on Martha's Vineyard (yes, really), where she stood shaking for 30 minutes while seven-year-olds held her hands — until her husband yelled up four words that rewired how she thinks about every single decision she makes. This episode is a gut-check and a fire-starter, all in one.
HIGHLIGHTS
→ The inventory Kim wants you to do on your life RIGHT NOW
→ What you're actually saying when you tolerate excuses — and why it's costing you everything
→ The Jaws Bridge moment that gave Kim her signature drive and conviction
→ What story do you want to tell? The micro-decision framework for daily life and business
→ Why victimhood is the silent killer of every big vision you have
→ The client making $1,000/day as a travel nomad — and what it proves about your "I can't" stories
→ How to break generational narratives that were never yours to carry
0:00 Intro — Are you ready to be that bitch?
1:15 The life inventory: where are you settling right now?
3:45 What tolerating excuses is really telling the universe
6:20 The Martha's Vineyard story begins
8:00 Kim on the Jaws Bridge — shaking for 30 minutes
11:10 "What story do you want to tell?" — the moment everything shifted
13:30 How Kim applies this question to every single day (even period week)
16:00 You have more access than you think — the nomad client making $1K/day
19:45 The privilege conversation — and where it becomes a trap
23:00 Breaking generational chains and choosing a different narrative
26:15 The conscious choice: always tell the story you want to live
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She fled China to escape a dangerous ex, came home with no plan, no job leads, and $70K in debt — and turned all of it into a million-dollar business and $600K in net worth growth in six years. That's the kind of story we tell on That Bitch.
Kim sits down with Chloe Daniels (aka Clobare Money Coach), award-winning financial educator and wealth-building expert who has helped over 14,000 students invest millions and grow their wealth — the lazy way. Chloe gets real about the trauma that set everything in motion, the shame spiral that almost kept her stuck, and how she rebuilt her entire life from the ground up.
We cover:
• The terrifying situation in China that forced Chloe to choose herself
• How she came home with an English degree, no job prospects, and a 2012 economy — and what she did next
• Why she blamed herself for her ex's psychotic break (and how that shame pattern started way earlier)
• The moment her "dream job" stopped being a dream — and what that taught her about evolving what you want
• How building wealth the lazy way actually works (and why most people overcomplicate it)
• What growing your net worth $600K looks like in real life
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That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her.
Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then…
The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again.
For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told.
That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.