https://youtu.be/Thl48B2bAfo
Today I talk about the time I was told to quit trying to living my dream, right to my face! It was a difficult time in my life, and felt like I was being kicked while trying to get up on my feet. It turns out that at the time I was getting mad and upset and just needed to spin the situation into a different light to give me the confidence to power through the negativity.
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welcome everybody to the dreamers
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podcast I'm your host Joe Pardo this is
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my co-host AvaΒ grace and she seems
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quite happy this morning I gotta say
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after having her nap and her and and her
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walk that we went on today's topic I
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want to talk about the a time that I got
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told to my eyes eyeballs the eyeballs to
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quit when I was going or about to do
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when faced with starting the dreamers
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podcast and getting started
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it's something that it's you know it has
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weight on my mind but it obviously i'm
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sitting here holding my lovely daughter
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ava grace and i wouldn't be able to do
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that if I just gave up and quit like
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someone told me to do right to my face
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you know it really waiting on my mind
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for quite awhile there when it happened
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it happened like right after I was just
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I'm so like a little over two years ago
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and it was like it was kind of took me
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back a little bit so I'm like hey you
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know I'm i know what i'm doing i have
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this uh all this experience and in
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business and I understand where i'm
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coming from as far as like what I'm
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leaving and when i'm giving up because
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I've I gave it three years of thinking
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before I decided to give all that life
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up to do my own thing and here i am
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two-and-a-half years later doing it so
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you know when have you got to remember
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sometimes people really love you I and
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they want the best for you and they
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think they know what the best is for you
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even though they don't really know the
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situation or what they're what they're
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talking about because maybe they don't
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even have an experience that that gets
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them there or maybe they're just jealous
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because they gave up on their own dreams
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and you know they're dirges quitters or
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in some cases haters but but a lot of
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cases it's because people you know they
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they want to show their their love and
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compassion for you and they don't want
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to see struggle or whatever it is but
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it's it's tough to hear it
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uh and and I didn't want to hear it was
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not obviously they want to hear because
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i'm here today to talk you know I
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survived all that so I you know that's
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why one of the reasons why I go really
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hard at the idea that i want you to take
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that step back and realize what it is
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that you want to do with your life and
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and do the research before you start
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making all these ideas like oh well this
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is gonna work and that's going to work
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you know really a way your your your
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strength of what you're great at and
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what you could be better at or what you
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can get someone else to help you do on
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that journey and and then go for it you
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know do that continue to do the research
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continue to learn continue that not just
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have the experiences and do it but the
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learn from those experiences and get
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better at the things that you want to do
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like Avis trying so hard to want to talk
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to this microphone that she's like she's
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reaching out for it but I'm not going to
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tell her to stop but I'm gonna keep
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pulling her back a little bit because I
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really really like to start doing a lot
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more of these I have tons of topics to
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go over and I'm just to reiterate you
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know when someone tells you to quit the
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probably doing it from their heart by
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the thing is is if you know and you
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spend that time to really dig deep
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inside yourself and look at what you're
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good at and figure out what it is that
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you love and the passion that you have
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and the and you're willing to do the
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google search you're willing to buy the
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books that you need to study to learn
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more and you're willing to put the hours
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in the learner are you willing to learn
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Ava I it looks like you're ready to
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learn it looks like you're ready to
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yes it looks like she's ready to learn
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you should be ready to learn go out and
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do that google search to figure out what
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it is exactly that makes you want to get
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up in the morning and do more of it and
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i'll catch you all next week on the
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Friday episode of course i'll have a
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great interview this upcoming weekend
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not sure not sure who is going to be
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actually let me let me just click
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because it's this is how we do now
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probably be Stephen Marley who is he was
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on the show long time ago you should go
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check out his butt episode i don't
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recall the episode number that he was on
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but we talked a lot about life life
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hacking and stuff like that so yeah give
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it a listen look forward to seeing
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everybody next week have a great weekend
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right Ava hey hey hey you have a great
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