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If you’re a man battling addiction, pornography, alcohol, or a “secret habit” you can’t talk about—this conversation is for you. In this episode, addiction counselor and sober house director Benjamin Clark breaks down the real roots of addiction and men’s mental health: trauma, isolation, silence, shame, and generational patterns that get passed down like a curse. We talk about why addiction often starts as relief and comfort, how families unknowingly protect the addiction, and why “functional” addiction can be the most deceptive trap. If you’ve ever felt like your past defines you—felonies, prison time, childhood wounds, abandonment, grief, or the pain you never processed—this will hit home. You’ll hear practical recovery tools that actually work in real life: community, journaling, gratitude, self-care, replacing destructive rewards with healthy ones, and building a mindset that doesn’t collapse under guilt. The message is simple but powerful: don’t suffer in silence. No man is an island—and you don’t have to fight this alone.
You’ll learn how addiction grows through isolation, silence, and shame inside families, why unhealthy coping and conflict avoidance become generational habits, and how codependency keeps people stuck even when they “love” each other. You’ll also hear solution-based recovery strategies like journaling gratitude, rebuilding healthy pleasures, and creating community support that protects sobriety. Finally, we break down the biggest lie men believe in recovery—“my past defines me”—and how to replace that mindset daily.
00:00 Intro
00:23 Benjamin’s background in addiction work
03:27 What addiction really is (isolation, silence, shame)
05:22 Why people start using (relief + comfort)
07:00 Functional addiction vs. dysfunction
08:01 The 3 generational drivers (coping, conflict avoidance, codependency)
11:32 Emotional wounds behind addiction (abandonment, grief, abuse)
15:29 The biggest lie: your past defines you
17:31 Solutions: community, journaling, self-care
21:41 Avoiding “all-or-nothing” burnout
23:44 3 final takeaways for men
25:45 How to reach Benjamin
#MensMentalHealth #AddictionRecovery #Sobriety #HealingTrauma #Masculinity
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If you’re a man battling addiction, pornography, alcohol, or a “secret habit” you can’t talk about—this conversation is for you. In this episode, addiction counselor and sober house director Benjamin Clark breaks down the real roots of addiction and men’s mental health: trauma, isolation, silence, shame, and generational patterns that get passed down like a curse. We talk about why addiction often starts as relief and comfort, how families unknowingly protect the addiction, and why “functional” addiction can be the most deceptive trap. If you’ve ever felt like your past defines you—felonies, prison time, childhood wounds, abandonment, grief, or the pain you never processed—this will hit home. You’ll hear practical recovery tools that actually work in real life: community, journaling, gratitude, self-care, replacing destructive rewards with healthy ones, and building a mindset that doesn’t collapse under guilt. The message is simple but powerful: don’t suffer in silence. No man is an island—and you don’t have to fight this alone.
You’ll learn how addiction grows through isolation, silence, and shame inside families, why unhealthy coping and conflict avoidance become generational habits, and how codependency keeps people stuck even when they “love” each other. You’ll also hear solution-based recovery strategies like journaling gratitude, rebuilding healthy pleasures, and creating community support that protects sobriety. Finally, we break down the biggest lie men believe in recovery—“my past defines me”—and how to replace that mindset daily.
00:00 Intro
00:23 Benjamin’s background in addiction work
03:27 What addiction really is (isolation, silence, shame)
05:22 Why people start using (relief + comfort)
07:00 Functional addiction vs. dysfunction
08:01 The 3 generational drivers (coping, conflict avoidance, codependency)
11:32 Emotional wounds behind addiction (abandonment, grief, abuse)
15:29 The biggest lie: your past defines you
17:31 Solutions: community, journaling, self-care
21:41 Avoiding “all-or-nothing” burnout
23:44 3 final takeaways for men
25:45 How to reach Benjamin
#MensMentalHealth #AddictionRecovery #Sobriety #HealingTrauma #Masculinity
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices