#4- Potential Cracks In The Wall- Impulse Control One thing that can cause a life to not be secure is a lack of self-control.  Not being able to control ones impulses has vast consequences from affairs to self-inflicted financial problems.  This is why from an early age it is imperative that we teach our children how to control their impulses.  The slogan “you want it, you got it” is not a very wise way to live life.  For more on this very important topic check out our week long series “Teaching Impulse Control” by clicking here. Â