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Have you ever agreed to a decision you didn’t actually want—just because you thought everyone else did?
In this episode of The Vancrux Podcast, we explore The Abilene Paradox: a psychological phenomenon where groups move in the wrong direction not out of stupidity or malice, but silence and assumption.
We begin inside a corporate boardroom where no one speaks up, then zoom out to everyday life—choosing where to eat, saying yes to one more drink, committing to plans you secretly regret. Through immersive storytelling, metaphors, and sharp insight, this episode reveals how fear of conflict, people-pleasing, and miscommunication quietly shape bad decisions over time.
If you’ve ever thought “Why did we agree to that?”—this episode will change how you see group decisions forever.
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By Jeevan MatharuHave you ever agreed to a decision you didn’t actually want—just because you thought everyone else did?
In this episode of The Vancrux Podcast, we explore The Abilene Paradox: a psychological phenomenon where groups move in the wrong direction not out of stupidity or malice, but silence and assumption.
We begin inside a corporate boardroom where no one speaks up, then zoom out to everyday life—choosing where to eat, saying yes to one more drink, committing to plans you secretly regret. Through immersive storytelling, metaphors, and sharp insight, this episode reveals how fear of conflict, people-pleasing, and miscommunication quietly shape bad decisions over time.
If you’ve ever thought “Why did we agree to that?”—this episode will change how you see group decisions forever.
🔥 Useful Links: 📘 Become a Person of Value by J.S. Math https://amzn.to/4cJjMbu
📗 A Question a Day Journal https://amzn.to/3Xbkxo0
📕 Daily Quotes of Wisdom https://amzn.to/4cKiltb
🌍 Transformational Coaching & Courses – The Vancrux Label https://www.thevancruxlabel.com/
🧢 The Vancrux Clothing Brand – Wear the Mentality https://www.thevancruxlabel.com/store
📸 Follow on Instagram /the_vancrux_label
🤝 Episode Sponsors:
☕ Strong Coffee Company — Protein-packed coffee for energy & clarity Code: VANCRUX1 (20% off) https://www.strongcoffeecompany.com
💊 More Labs — Clinically proven hydration & recovery drinks Code: VANCRUX1 (25% off) https://www.morelabs.com
🍬 LiQure Gummies — Electrolytes + vitamins for hangover prevention & recovery Code: VANCRUX1 (20% off) https://www.liqure.com