The Aging Grace With Andrew Blakey

The Aging Grace With Andrew Blakey

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  • The 5 Fitness Lies Women Over 40 Need to Stop Believing

    If you’re looking for fitness after 40 that actually works, stop believing it’s too late to get stronger, that lifting will make you bulky, or that eating less and doing more cardio is the answer. Those are some of the most common fitness lies I hear from women in midlife, and they might be the reason you feel stuck.

    In this solo episode of The Aging Grace podcast, I break down 5 fitness myths women over 40 need to stop believing, what the research actually shows, and one simple thing you can do this week for each one. We cover strength training after 40, why lifting won't make you bulky, why cutting calories can cost you muscle, why cardio alone isn't enough, and why soreness is not proof your workout worked.

    If you're ready to start strength training without the guesswork, grab my free 7-day Strength After 40 email course here:

    https://blakeybreakthrough.academy/strongafter40

    You'll get one simple lesson a day, plus two follow-along workouts. No gym and no experience required.

    In this episode:

    • Why it's not too late to start strength training after 40
    • The truth about lifting weights and "getting bulky"
    • Why eating less can backfire (and what to do instead)
    • Why more cardio isn't always better in midlife
    • Why soreness and exhaustion are not signs of a good workout
    • 13 min
    • 38- How to Lose Weight and Keep It Off: Weight Loss, GLP-1s & "Eating Less" With Gina Livy

      Losing weight is one thing. Keeping it off is another. Gina Livy has lost over 100 pounds and kept it off for years, and she didn't do it by eating less. For a lot of women over 40, eating less isn't always the answer, and GLP-1s like Ozempic aren't the be-all and end-all either.

      In Part 2 of my conversation with Gina Livy, founder of the Livy Method and author of the recently released book Liv Lighter, we cover:

      - why science on insulin resistance, menopause hormone therapy and intermittent fasting keeps changing

      - why everyone's obsessed with protein while ignoring fiber
      - how your inability to recover from stress (not stress itself) affects your choices and your sleep
      - why people gain weight back, however they lost it
      - what GLP-1 medications like Ozempic do and don't fix, and why you still have to protect your muscle

      Her approach: eat more of the right foods, build good habits, and give your body time to adjust. Her takeaway: it's nuanced, and change can be slow.

      👉 Grab my free 7-day course, Strong After 40  to start strength training the right way. https://blakeybreakthrough.academy/strongafter40

      👉 Learn more about Gina and the Livy Method at GinaLivy.com

      33 min
    • 37 - Why You Keep Losing the Same 10 Pounds After 40 With Gina Livy

      Tired of losing the same 10 pounds over and over? Eating less might be part of the reason you're stuck, especially after 40.

      Gina Livy is back on the show. She's the founder of the Livy Method and author of the new book Live Lighter: The Art of Living Well in Your Body, Home and Mind, and she has helped hundreds of thousands of women in more than 50 countries lose weight without counting or weighing a thing.


      She also lost over 100 pounds herself and has kept it off for more than 30 years. In Part 1 of our conversation, we get into the biggest weight loss myth out there, why "eat less, move more" so often backfires, and how the food rules you grew up with could still be running the show.

      In this episode, you'll learn:

      - Why your body's set point isn't fixed, and why it takes about two years for your body to adjust to a new weight
      - How "clean your plate" and other childhood food rules taught you to ignore your hunger cues
      - Why 200 calories of cookies and 200 calories of steak do completely different things in your body
      - How under-eating, over-exercising, stress and no sleep led to Gina's weight gain, and why eating more good food helped her lose it
      - Why GLP-1 medications can quiet food noise but don't fix the reasons we eat

      "No one in the diet industry is trying to help you lose your weight and keep it off." – Gina Livy

      Part 2 drops next week. Follow the show so you don't miss it.

      Connect with Gina Livy:

      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginalivy
      Website: https://livymethod.com/
      NEW Book, Live Lighter: https://www.indigo.ca/products/liv-lighter-the-art-of-living-well-in-your-body-home-and-mind

      FREE 7-DAY COURSE: STRONG AFTER 40

      Ready to start strength training the right way? Get one short lesson in your inbox every day for a week. It's completely free.

      https://blakeybreakthrough.academy/strongafter40

      LOVE THE SHOW?

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      If this episode helped you, please leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes 30 seconds and helps more women over 40 find the show.

      The information in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Talk to your healthcare provider before making changes to your health or fitness routine.

      27 min
    • 36 -Why Rest Is the Most Misunderstood Thing in Injury Recovery — Dr. Erin Boynton (Part 2)

      What if the pain you’ve been living with — the achy knees, the stiff back, the shoulder that’s been bothering you for years — wasn’t a sign that you’re broken, but a message that something’s out of balance?

      In Part 2 of my conversation with Dr. Erin Boynton — orthopedic surgeon, elite tennis player, and one of the first women to work in both the MLB and NHL — we get into the stuff nobody tells you about injury, recovery, and what it actually takes to heal your body after 40.

      We cover:

      • Why disc degeneration is incredibly common after 40 and doesn’t have to mean surgery
      • The single biggest mistake people make when they start exercising again (hint: it’s not what you think)
      • Why your body needs relative rest — not complete rest — to heal
      • The “big toe test” Dr. B uses with her patients (try this at home — it’ll tell you a lot)
      • What’s most overrated in injury recovery and what’s massively underrated
      • Why pain is actually your body’s voice — and how to start listening to it
      • The mindset that separates people who recover from those who don’t
      • Dr. Boynton closes with a message that I think every woman over 40 needs to hear: it is never too late. She didn’t take up tennis until her 30s. The body can always adapt.

        If you’re someone who’s been putting off getting back to movement because things hurt — this one’s for you.

        Follow Dr. Erin Boynton on Instagram: @DOCTORERINB

        Follow Andrew on Instagram: @Iamandrewblakey

        🎁 FREE: Strong After 40 — 7-Day Mini Course

        If this episode motivated you to start moving but you’re not sure where to begin, I built this free course for exactly that. Every day for 7 days, I’ll send a new lesson straight to your inbox to help you start strength training the right way — no gym required.
        👉 https://blakeybreakthrough.academy/strongafter40

        💪 Ready to go all in? Join the Blakey Breakthrough

        A 12-week online program where I take you through a full strength training curriculum with live workouts, real coaching, and a community of women doing this alongside you.
        👉 blakeybreakthrough.com

        29 min
      • 35 - Rest Isn't Always Best: Surgeon Dr Boynton On Healing Your Pain After 40 (Part 1)

        Joint pain after 40? If you've rested your knee, shoulder or back and the pain keeps coming back, there's a reason, and it isn't your age.

        This is part one of a two-part conversation with Dr. Erin Boynton, the first female orthopaedic surgeon in both Major League Baseball and the NHL. She's worked with the Toronto Blue Jays, the Maple Leafs, the Argos and the National Ballet, spent 16 years as medical director at the Rogers Cup, published over 30 research papers, and won the J. Édouard Samson Award for career orthopaedic research in Canada. She raised two kids while doing it, and she's currently ranked 18th in the world in tennis in her age category.

        If you're dealing with knee pain, shoulder pain, a rotator cuff tear, or a back that keeps going out, this one is for you.

        In this episode, you'll learn:

        - Why rest eases joint pain but doesn't heal the injury, explained with a car-and-tire analogy you won't forget

        - Why your knee or shoulder can hurt when the real problem is somewhere else in the body
        - What happened when she gave shoulder patients movement work instead of surgery, and how many got better
        - Why a partial rotator cuff tear on your MRI may not mean what you think it means
        - The four pillars of a movement foundation, and why strength training before you fix your alignment can backfire
        - What she learned as the only woman in the room, and her honest advice on career and motherhood

        "Move the body the right way and it will heal. Move it the wrong way and it breaks down."

        TIMESTAMPS

        00:00 - Meet Dr. Erin Boynton

        01:03 - Why she wrote The Injury Guide
        01:49 - Being one of the 2%: women in orthopaedic surgery
        03:28 - How to handle a male-dominated workplace
        05:17 - Four weeks of leave: building a surgical career with a newborn
        06:59 - Why you can't be a supermom, and what to do instead
        08:50 - Why change takes men and women together
        09:58 - Is rest really best for an injury?
        12:10 - The muscle discovery that changed how she treats patients
        13:09 - The car and tire analogy: why your pain keeps coming back
        16:10 - What "realigning the wheels" actually means in your body
        17:53 - Partial rotator cuff tears and what your MRI really shows
        19:41 - The patients who skipped surgery and got better anyway
        21:00 - The four pillars of a movement foundation
        22:37 - Why strengthening before alignment can make things worse
        24:10 - Coming up in part two

        Part two is the practical side: what 15 minutes a day should look like, a test you can do on your own foot right now, and exactly where to start if you're deconditioned and scared of making things worse.

        Connect with Dr. Erin Boynton:

        Website: https://doctorerinb.com
        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorerinb/

        Mentioned in this episode:

        The Injury Guide by Dr. Erin Boynton On Amazon - https://link.amazon/B02rWQY0B

        LOVE THE SHOW?

        Subscribe so you never miss an episode:

        If this episode helped you, please leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes 30 seconds and helps more women over 40 find the show.

        The information in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Talk to your healthcare provider before making changes to your health or fitness routine.

        26 min
      • 34 - What You Can Actually Do About Menopause Part 2 — Exercise, Hormones & the Truth With Amanda Thebe

        Part one of our conversation with Amanda Thebe took off and the feedback was incredible — and part two goes even deeper. This time we're getting into the practical stuff: what you can actually do, starting today, to manage your symptoms and move through this stage of life feeling stronger and more in control.

        Amanda and Andrew speak the truth about hormone therapy — who it's for, what it actually does, and what the research cannot support yet — and why the loudest voices on social media aren't always the most trustworthy ones.

        Then they get into the four tools Amanda swears by for managing menopause: exercise, nutrition, sleep and stress management, and mindset. Plus the conversation that every woman over 40 needs to hear — why listening to your body on the hard days isn't giving up, it's smart training.

        In this episode:

        • The measured truth about hormone therapy — what it does well and what it can't do
        • Why your doctor's appointment is not a menopause plan
        • The four tools for managing menopause symptoms (exercise, nutrition, sleep, mindset)
        • Auto-regulation and the 1–10 energy scale for training through perimenopause
        • Why "intentional movement" on bad days is enough — and why showing up matters
        • Amanda's Spring Women's Health platform — what it is and who it's for
        • If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet from last week (Episode 33), go back and start there — this conversation builds on everything covered in the first episode.

          Follow Amanda on Instagram: @amanda.thebe

          Check out Spring Women's Health: springwomenshealth.com
          Follow Andrew on Instagram: @Iamandrewblakey

          PS I also have a brand new 7 day course called Strong After 40 for free where you can get a video sent to your inbox each day to learn how to get started with strength training by the end of our course together. 

          19 min
        • 33 - The Perimenopause Talk You Never Got With Amanda Thebe Part 1

          Brain fog, insomnia, vertigo, anxiety, and a doctor telling you your tests are "normal"? You're not losing your mind. It could be perimenopause.

          Amanda Thebe is the best-selling author of Menopocalypse, a TEDx speaker, and one of the most honest voices in women's health. After years of perimenopause symptoms and countless tests that found nothing, one doctor finally put a name to what she was going through. Now she helps women over 40 understand their bodies and get the care they deserve.

          In Part 1, you'll learn:

          - The perimenopause symptoms nobody warns you about, from brain fog and joint pain to tinnitus and chronic fatigue
          - Why so many women see several doctors before anyone takes them seriously
          - Exactly what to say at your appointment so you walk out with a plan
          - Why strength training in your 30s and 40s protects your bones and muscle through menopause
          - Why men belong in the menopause conversation too

          Part 2 drops next week: the practical strategies that actually move the needle on your symptoms.

          CONNECT WITH AMANDA THEBE

          Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amanda.thebe/
          Spring Women's Health: https://www.springwomenshealth.com

          MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

          - Menopocalypse by Amanda Thebe: https://a.co/d/05JZlklw
          - Spring's doctor-visit guide with symptom tracking and exact language to use: https://www.springwomenshealth.com

          LOVE THE SHOW?

          Subscribe so you never miss an episode, part two of this conversation comes out September 30th. 

          If this episode helped you, please leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes 30 seconds and helps more women over 40 find the show.

          The information in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Talk to your healthcare provider before making changes to your health or fitness routine.

          38 min
        • 32 - Everyone's Talking About Creatine. Here's Your No-BS Masterclass to Understanding It.

          Everyone's talking about creatine — but do you actually know what it does and whether it's right for you? In this episode of Aging Grace with Andrew Blakey, we break down one of the most researched supplements in existence and explain the science in a way that's simple, clear, and actually useful — especially if you're a woman over 40.

          If you're over 40, your body is already working against you in ways you might not realize. Muscle loss accelerates, energy declines, metabolism slows, and the risk of falls and fractures quietly increases. Creatine has emerged as one of the most talked-about supplements for this exact stage of life — but the misinformation around it has kept too many women away from something the research actually supports quite strongly.

          In this episode, Andrew covers what creatine really is, how it works inside your body, how to take it, and the truth behind the biggest myths — including the persistent claim that it damages your kidneys.

          What you'll learn:

          • What creatine is and why it's not a steroid or a bodybuilding drug
          • Sarcopenia — the age-related muscle loss that begins in your 30s and why it matters
          • How the ATP-CP energy system works and why creatine gives you a "bigger battery"
          • Creatine monohydrate — the most researched version of the supplement.
          • What happens to your body and the scale in the first two weeks
          • The truth behind the kidney damage myth and why cycling off isn't necessary
          • The emerging research on creatine and brain health, cognitive function, and mental clarity after menopause
          • This episode is for women over 40 who want to understand their bodies, cut through the noise on social media, and make informed decisions about their health — not be told what to do.

            if you’re interested in researching specific products please see below for some popular recommendations. 


            Transparently these links are my affiliate links, I am in no way sponsored or affiliated with the company in any special way. I do receive a small small kickback for any purchase with these links but they in no way influence the price you pay

            Amazon - Creatine Monohydrate

            Andrew is not recommending creatine. This episode is education. For personalized guidance on supplementation and nutrition, always speak with a registered dietitian.

            Follow Andrew on Instagram for myth-busting videos and weekly content for women over 40: @Iamandrewblakey

            28 min
          • 31 - The Mindset That's Quietly Sabotaging Every Fitness Attempt After 40

            What if the best your body has ever looked and felt hasn't happened yet?

            Most women over 40 spend their energy trying to get back to something — a number on the scale, the way they looked before kids, before the chaos, before life got complicated. But what if that's the wrong target entirely?

            In today's episode, Andrew makes the case that the most powerful, confident, capable version of your body is not in your past. It's built right now, with the right strategy, in the body you actually have today.

            This isn't a pep talk. It's a plan.

            Andrew breaks down exactly why women over 40 have more potential than they've been told, what's actually been standing in the way, and the step-by-step approach his clients use to build bodies they are genuinely proud of — not in spite of being over 40, but because of everything this season of life has to offer.

            If you've been waiting to feel good in your body again, stop waiting. This episode is your starting point.

            In this episode:

            • Why the goal of "getting back" is keeping you from going forward
            • What changes after 40 — and why it's not the disadvantage you think it is
            • The 3-week training ramp that builds real, lasting results
            • How much protein you actually need to build muscle after 40
            • The mindset shift that changes everything
            • You haven't peaked. You're just getting started.

              Come tell me what resonated — I'm on Instagram and I read every single message: instagram.com/Iamandrewblakey

              24 min
            • 30 - Understanding The Root Causes Of Low Energy After 40 — Stress, Hormones, & Sleep Dr. Paul Hrkal

              If you're doing everything "right" and still exhausted, this episode is for you.

              So many women over 40 are tired — not just end-of-day tired, but bone-deep, wake-up-exhausted, can't-get-through-the-afternoon tired. And too often they're told by their doctors: "You're just getting older. Deal with it." Today's guest refuses to accept that answer.


              Dr. Paul Hrkal is a naturopathic doctor with a specialty in neurology, hormonal health, and weight loss support. Rather than treating symptoms in isolation, Dr. Paul takes a systems biology approach — looking at how your hormones, sleep, gut, stress response, and nutrition all communicate with each other to either generate energy or drain it. He's worked with hundreds of women navigating perimenopause and menopause, and he's the creator of the 6-Week Energy Reset Program — a step-by-step framework to help you understand and rebuild your energy from the ground up.


              In this episode, Andrew and Dr. Paul dig into why low energy is one of the most overlooked — and most misdiagnosed — health challenges women face after 40, and what you can actually do about it.


              🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES
              • 📲 Follow Dr. Paul Hrkal on Instagram and learn more about his 6 week energy reset program: instagram.com/drpaulhrkal
              • 💪 The Blakey Breakthrough — Andrew's Signature Program: blakeybreakthrough.com
              • ⚡ Spots are still available — program starts September 8th. Don't miss it!
              • 🎧 Listen to Aging Grace on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/0UG2ZlmwAUI2WHtHtS4wA5
              • 🕐 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
                • [00:00] — Welcome & Dr. Paul's background: what a naturopathic doctor actually does
                • [05:00] — Why our healthcare system is failing women with multi-system symptoms
                • [10:00] — How to know if your fatigue is a real problem (vs. just a hard week)
                • [15:00] — The first building blocks to check: nutrition, iron, and B12 deficiency
                • [20:00] — Why sleep quality matters more than sleep quantity
                • [26:00] — The sleep apnea case study: a 55-year-old woman whose energy completely transformed
                • [32:00] — Cortisol, adrenal hormones & menopause: the sneaky connection draining your energy
                • [38:00] — "Adrenal fatigue" — what's real, what's myth, and why it matters
                • [44:00] — How exercise needs to change after 40 (and why pushing harder is often the wrong answer)
                • [50:00] — Dr. Paul's 6-Week Energy Reset Program
                • 52 min

                About The Aging Grace With Andrew Blakey

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                The Aging Grace with Andrew Blakey is a health and fitness podcast for women over 40 who want to stay strong, active, and independent deep into the aging process.