Episode Summary

Thanksgiving is more than turkey and football—it’s the original American holiday, built on gratitude, resilience, and community.

This special Thanksgiving episode takes you from the first colonial feast to today’s firehouses, exploring how one farmer’s decision to feast instead of fast set the tone for a culture of grateful service. Along the way, we’ll connect Benjamin Franklin’s role in shaping both Thanksgiving and America’s first volunteer fire company to the modern science showing that gratitude builds emotional resilience and mental strength.

Whether you’re celebrating at the station or the family table, this episode will leave you with practical tools to turn thankfulness into toughness—and remind you why service rooted in gratitude endures.

Highlights include:

* How America’s early holidays tie back to Thanksgiving’s founding spirit

* The surprising link between Benjamin Franklin, gratitude, and the first volunteer fire service

* The “broaden-and-build effect” and why gratitude literally rewires the stressed brain

* A simple two-step gratitude practice for anyone living the first responder life

* A heartfelt challenge to pause, reflect, and share what you’re thankful for this season

Share the Episode

If this story resonated with you, share it with your crew, shift partner, or another first responder who could use a reminder that gratitude is one of our strongest tools for mental fitness and resilience.

Send them the link or tag them on social media, and help keep the spirit of Thanksgiving alive in every station and service community.

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Episode Summary

In this closing conversation of the Connection Is Medicine series, Roy sits down with Janet Zander and Meghan Christian to explore how communities, systems, and everyday interactions shape our collective health.

Janet Zander serves as the Advocacy & Public Policy Coordinator for the Greater Wisconsin Agency on Aging Resources (GWAAR) and is a founding member of the Wisconsin Coalition for Social Connection. A 16‑year volunteer emergency medical responder, she helps communities translate policy into purpose.

Meghan Christian is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with the Institute for Child and Family Well‑Being, where she integrates neuroscience, resilience research, and trauma‑informed care into direct practice and system change for children and families.

Together, they unpack the recent World Health Organization declaration of loneliness as a global public‑health crisis, reveal what disconnection looks like across both the youngest and oldest generations, and offer hope grounded in everyday action.

This episode is a follow-up to this article (link). You can check out the entire three-part series on loneliness and longevity at the Aging Well Firefighter website (link).

Key Topics Covered

* The WHO’s 2025 report naming loneliness a worldwide public‑health threat

* How children and older adults experience disconnection differently — and similarly

* Why depth and frequency of relationships matter more than numbers

* The biology of psychological safety and our innate need for connection

* Intergenerational care: shared learning between early‑life and later‑life networks

* Micro‑connections — small daily interactions that sustain communities

* The importance of empathy and “emotional bandwidth” for first responders

* Practical, person‑centered “prescriptions” for social connection

Memorable Quotes / Takeaways

“We’ve independenced our way into isolation.” – Meghan Christian

“Strength isn’t just carrying our call. We have to give ourselves grace and we have to carry each other.” – Janet Zander

“It’s not a one‑size‑fits‑all problem. What makes you feel connected might be totally different for someone else.”

“Even the quick ‘thinking of you’ text or the chat at the door when you deliver a meal — those minutes make a measurable difference.”

Memorable Takeaway: Connection is infrastructure. It must be designed, practiced, and protected the same way we maintain public safety — from early childhood interaction to aging services to the culture inside every firehouse.

Call to Action

* Pause to notice the micro‑connections in your day — eye contact, small talk, shared errands.

* Build interdependence: run the “mundane” errands with someone else.

* Practice empathy in uniform and at home — remember that emotional readiness is part of operational readiness.

* Explore and share the resources below to strengthen connection in your own community.

Connect with Our Guests

Janet Zander

* LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/janet-zander-advocacypublicpolicy

* GWAAR on Facebook → facebook.com/GWAARWI

* Wisconsin Aging Advocacy Network (WAAN) on Facebook → facebook.com/WAAN.ACTION

* Explore the Wisconsin Coalition for Social Connection resources → connectwi.org

Meghan Christian — Institute for Child and Family Well‑Being

* Strong Families, Thriving Children, Connected Communities Initiative → https://uwm.edu/icfw/strong-families-thriving-children-connected-communities-initiative/

* Institute Website → uwm.edu/icfw

* Facebook → facebook.com/institutechildfamilywellbeing

* LinkedIn → linkedin.com/company/institute-for-child-and-family-well-being

* Instagram → instagram.com/institutechildfamilywellbeing

Connect with Roy Smalley

* Website & all links → www.roysmalley.us

* Instagram → instagram.com/roysmalley.us

* Facebook → facebook.com/roysmalley.us

* LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/roysmalley

Have a story about connection or resilience in the fire service or community life? Reach out — Roy would love to hear it or feature you on a future episode.

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Episode Summary

In this episode, firefighter, AEMT, and fitness coach Roy Smalley dives into the motivation behind his recent Firefighter Nation article, “The Fire Service Has a Fitness Problem — and It’s Not What You Think.”

After receiving both praise and criticism online, Roy sets the record straight: he’s not separating fitness from the emergency services — he’s separating fitness from the scale.

From avoiding gym class growing up to becoming a triathlete and respected trainer, Roy shares his personal journey, how he learned that fitness isn’t about aesthetics or numbers, and why firefighters must rethink what it truly means to be “fit for duty.” He also addresses critics head-on, pushing back against the myths of calendar culture and encouraging a more balanced, sustainable, and mission-focused approach to fire service wellness.

You’ll walk away from this episode inspired, challenged, and ready to rethink how you measure your own fitness — both on and off the job.

Key Topics Covered

* Roy’s personal transformation from sedentary lifestyle to triathlon and coaching

* Why separating fitness from the scale doesn’t mean separating it from the profession

* How “calendar culture” and unrealistic standards hurt firefighters’ health and morale

* The evolution of Roy’s coaching philosophy: balance, sustainability, and enjoyment over extremism

* The meaning and power of Non‑Scale Victories (NSVs)

* Addressing misconceptions and online criticism with humor and perspective

* Real fitness metrics that matter in the fire service — endurance, recovery, strength, focus, and longevity

* The myth of “too old to improve” and why fitness progress never stops

Memorable Quotes

“I’m not separating fitness from the fire service; I’m separating fitness from the scale.”

“You can’t make someone love exercise, but you can sure as heck make them hate it.”

“Separating fitness from the scale isn’t lowering standards; it’s raising the right ones.”

“Fitness isn’t what you weigh — it’s how well you live.”

Call to Action

What’s your non‑scale victory this week?Share it with Roy on social media — whether it’s improved stamina, better sleep, a faster recovery, or simply feeling stronger during your shift. Let’s celebrate the wins that really count.

And if you haven’t yet, read Roy’s full article on Firefighter Nation — “The Fire Service Has a Fitness Problem — and It’s Not What You Think.” Then join the conversation by tagging Roy in your thoughts and takeaways.

Connect with Roy Smalley

Website & all links: www.roysmalley.usInstagram: @roysmalley.usFacebook: @roysmalley.usLinkedIn: roysmalley

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Episode Summary

I hadn’t originally planned to record this short episode. After an intense call, I talk about realizing when you need to press “pause,” and how stepping back to decompress can be an act of strength, not retreat. I talk about recovery, connection, and remembering that caring for others starts with caring for yourself.

Key Topics

* When the job hits hard

* Decompression as maintenance

* Why powering through isn’t sustainable

* Connection as emotional turnout gear

* Preview of next week’s “Building Connection into the Culture” episode

Memorable Quotes

“Giving yourself recovery time isn’t weakness — it’s maintenance.”“That pause after the noise is where connection begins.”“The tough calls can’t be avoided, but the isolation afterward? That’s a choice.”

Call to Action

This week: take one quiet moment to breathe and share it with someone who understands.

Connect with Roy

All links and contact info: www.roysmalley.usInstagramFacebookLinkedIn

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Episode Summary

In this second episode of the Connection Is Medicine series, Roy sits down with Mollie Kallas - a professional who bridges clinical insight and front‑line fire service experience.

Mollie is the AODA Clinical Supervisor with Church Health Services; a firefighter and Health & Safety Officer for the Columbus Fire Department; holds a Master of Science in Addiction Counseling; and is licensed as both a Clinical Substance Abuse Counselor and an Independent Clinical Supervisor.

Together, Roy and Mollie explore what connection looks like when it’s actually working on the rig, in the station, and in everyday life. They discuss mental health stigma, peer support, generational change inside the fire service, and why relationships are as protective as turnout gear. Mollie shares practical ways to build resilience, create a culture of psychological safety, and support first responders through chaos, quiet, and recovery.

Key Topics Covered

* The intersection of mental and physical health in the fire service

* How Mollie balances clinical supervision and firefighting roles

* What peer‑support and debrief programs look like in practice

* Bridging the generational gap around talking about mental health

* Recognizing when “professional toughness” turns into unhealthy isolation

* Building everyday habits that strengthen connection and resilience

* Simple ways families can support responders after difficult calls

* Resources available through Church Health Services for mental and behavioral health care

Memorable Quotes

“Strength isn’t just carrying our call. We have to give ourselves grace and we have to carry each other.”

“Our relationships protect us from emotional wear and tear the same way turnout gear protects us from heat on the scene.”

“The loneliness comes when we have quiet. We’re so used to chaos that silence can hit harder than the calls.”

“You don’t have to have the perfect answer. Sometimes the most powerful support is simply being there.”

Memorable Takeaway:Connection in the fire service isn’t a luxury; it’s protective equipment for both body and mind. Small, genuine check‑ins save more than morale; they save lives and careers.

Action Steps

* Start the conversation. Ask your peers, “How are you really doing?”

* Normalize support. Attend a peer‑support debrief or start one in your department.

* Share the tools. Forward this episode to your crew, chiefs, or family members.

* Get help. First Responders can access confidential, low‑cost behavioral health care through Church Health Services.

Church Health Services → churchclinic.org/behavioral-health.htmlFirst Responders can call 📞 920‑887‑1766 (option 2)

Other crisis and support resources are listed on the Aging Well Firefighter website.

📩 Connect with Roy

* Website & all links → www.roysmalley.us

* Instagram @roysmalley.us

* Facebook @roysmalley.us

* LinkedIn roysmalley

Share your own story or inquire about being a guest: contact info is on the website.

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🔜 Next Up – Part 3

In the final installment, Building Connection into the Culture, Roy zooms out from individual stories to the global view: how communities and organizations can design connection into everyday life, and how that literally adds years of healthy living.

Subscribe now so you don’t miss this closing chapter of the Connection Is Medicine series.

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Episode Summary

In this opening episode of the Connection Is Medicine series, Roy explores the quiet public‑health risk of chronic loneliness.

Through two true personal stories — about AJ, a brilliant but isolated IT specialist, and Ed, a 90‑year‑old widower who thrives through family connection — Roy illustrates how relationships profoundly shape the quality of our later years.

Drawing from the U.S. Surgeon General and long‑term studies, he explains how loneliness is as dangerous as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and how strong social bonds act as protective gear for the body, mind, and spirit.

Be sure to read the article this episode is based on for more about Ed, and about the link between loneliness and longevity: [link]

Key Topics Covered

* AJ’s story – a life of service without a support network

* The difference between healthy solitude and chronic loneliness

* Firefighters’ “toughness” culture and silent isolation

* Science linking loneliness to inflammation, heart disease, and shortened life span

* The counterexample of Ed – how consistent connection fuels longevity

* Practical ways to build “social fitness”: small, steady habits of connection

* Why connection is essential for first responders, families, and communities

Memorable Quotes

“When the road narrows, the quality of those last miles depends on who’s walking beside you.”

“We call it toughness, but much of the time it’s loneliness with a badge.”

“Human connection isn’t just a nice thing to have — it’s a deep need.”

“You can out‑train or out‑work or out‑study almost anything, but you can’t out‑tough loneliness.”

“Connection doesn’t just make life pleasant — it makes life possible.”

Call to Action

* Reach out to someone you haven’t heard from lately.

* Schedule time for connection just like your workouts or trainings.

* Share this episode with a crewmate, friend, or family member who might need the reminder that they’re not alone.

* Got a story about connection, aging, or life in the service? Roy would love to hear it — or feature you on a future episode.

📩 Contact Roy:

* Website & all links → www.roysmalley.us

* Instagram

* Facebook

* LinkedIn

Coming Next…

Episode 2 – “Relationships Are Medicine.”Roy explores the research that shows how human connection literally changes our biology — from lowering inflammation to boosting resilience. We’ll unpack practical ways to put that science to work in the firehouse, at home, and in your own relationships.

If this conversation hit home, don’t miss what’s next! Subscribe on your favorite platform, leave a quick rating or review, and help other first responders, families, and neighbors find the tools to fight wisely and age bravely.

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Episode Summary

Falls don’t just break bones; they reverberate into families, confidence, and independence. In this wrap-up to the Gravity Never Sleeps series, I sit down with my long-time friend and client Lisa Fleischer, former owner of Senior Helpers, to explore an often-unseen side of falls: the aftershocks that caregivers and families endure.

Lisa brings more than a decade of experience supporting older adults and their families through everything from simple grocery trips to end-of-life care. Together, we unpack caregiving, community resources, and misconceptions that can either hold families back or empower them to extend independence.

This conversation is more than caregiving; it’s about reshaping what resilience really means.

If you missed the latest article in this series, you can catch up at www.agingwellfirefighter.com

Key Topics Covered

* Why falls are about much more than accidents, and the ongoing ripple effects in family dynamics, confidence, and independence.

* The role of in-home services like Senior Helpers, ADRCs, and Meals on Wheels in supporting independence - not taking it away.

* How caregivers can navigate denial and hidden falls, and the subtle clues that a loved one may have fallen without telling anyone.

* Hospice and palliative care, and the misconceptions that keep families from seeking help earlier.

* How to rebuild confidence and balance after a fall, and why prevention is more powerful when it’s proactive.

* The importance of caregiver resilience in the larger ecosystem of falls prevention and healthy aging.

Memorable Quotes

* “The hardest part isn’t always the fall itself. It’s what comes after — the loss of confidence, the stubborn pride, the burnout of caregivers.”

* “Most people see any sort of help as a weakness. And it’s not. Leaning on others can help you stay independent longer.” — Lisa Fleischer

* “Falls prevention is never just about rugs and railings — it’s about a whole ecosystem of resilience, and caregivers are right in the middle of it.”

* “Hospice isn’t just end-of-life care. People can actually graduate from hospice when it helps them stabilize and improve.” — Lisa Fleischer

* “Gravity never sleeps, but neither does human courage, confidence, or resilience.”

Call to Action

If this episode challenged the way you think about caregiving and falls, share it with a family member, caregiver, or friend. The conversation you start today could prevent a fall tomorrow.

Do you have a story about resilience, caregiving, or falls prevention? I’d love to hear from you, and maybe even share your story on a future episode. Reach out using the links below.

Connect with Roy Smalley

* Instagram: @roysmalley.us

* Facebook: @roysmalley.us

* LinkedIn: roysmalley

* All links in one place: www.roysmalley.us

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Episode Summary

In this episode of The Aging Well Firefighter, we flip the script on fall prevention. Instead of only talking about avoiding falls, we dive into something overlooked but life-saving: training how to fall well and, just as importantly, how to get back up safely and confidently.

I’m joined remotely by Dr. Eric Meyer, Doctor of Physical Therapy and owner of MVP Rehab & Sports Performance in Beaver Dam, Wisconsin (recently named Best Rehabilitation Facility in Dodge County). Dr. Meyer shares how physical therapy addresses more than just pain relief: it builds resilience, improves reflexes, and restores confidence. We talk about how PTs approach fall training, recovery skills, the use-it-or-lose-it principle, and how practicing confidence may be just as important as practicing strength.

By the end of this episode, you’ll see falling and rising in a whole new way.

If you missed the latest article in this series, you can catch up at www.agingwellfirefighter.com

Key Topics Covered

* Why traditional healthcare often overlooks fall training

* The swimming analogy: why learning how to fall is like teaching kids to swim

* Protective reflexes, balance decline, and the use-it-or-lose-it principle

* How physical therapy uses graded exposure to help patients practice falling safely

* Why learning to get back up is just as important as learning to fall well

* The crippling impact of fear of falling, and why confidence is a trainable skill

* One practical habit everyone can start today to build resilience against falls

Memorable Insights from Dr. Meyer

* “We don’t just want kids to stay out of the pool. We should also teach them to swim and how to get out safely. The same is true for falls.”

* “Protective reflexes don’t just disappear with age, you lose them when you stop using them.”

* “Fear of falling can be just as dangerous as a fall because it changes the way people move and live.”

* “It’s not a new trick. It’s a skill you’ve had since birth, but you may need to practice it again.”

* “Confidence isn’t something you’re just born with. It’s a skill you can build and strengthen, just like balance or endurance.”

Call to Action

* For listeners: Don’t just avoid challenges; practice resilience. Learn how to fall and how to rise again. Share this episode with someone in your life who may need encouragement, whether that’s an older adult, a caregiver, or simply someone working to age well.

* For patients in Wisconsin: If you’d like expert help in building these skills, reach out to Dr. Eric Meyer at MVP Rehab & Sports Performance. His team is passionate about helping people not just recover from injuries, but also thrive at every age.

Contact Dr. Eric Meyer – MVP Rehab & Sports Performance

* 🌐 Website & Booking: www.mvprehabwi.com

* 📧 Email: [email protected]

* 📞 Phone: 608-469-0072

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* LinkedIn: roysmalley

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Episode Summary

Falls don’t strike at random. They tend to cluster at certain times of day — early mornings, midnight bathroom trips, and the vulnerable days and weeks after a hospital stay. But timing isn’t the whole story. Social factors, community supports, and even the conversations we avoid at home can quietly shape who’s at risk, and how well they recover after a fall.

In this episode, I talk with Brittany Borchardt, Aging Services Supervisor at the Aging & Disability Resource Center of Dodge County, and a member of the county’s Falls Prevention Coalition. Brittany shares her frontline perspective on the danger windows, the role of families and caregivers, and how the community resources she oversees help older adults stay steady, connected, and independent.

If you’ve ever wondered why walks to the bathroom, medication changes, or even social isolation can trigger fall risk, this conversation will stick with you.

This episode is a companion to my recent article “Gravity Never Sleeps”, which you can read here: [link]

Key Topics Covered

* Why falls cluster at predictable “danger hours” (morning, night, post-shift, post-hospital)

* The role of medications, nutrition, and hydration in vulnerability to falls

* How social determinants of health like finances, housing, isolation, and access to care can influence both fall risk and recovery

* The role of family and caregivers in prevention (and in having hard conversations gracefully)

* Resources available locally through the ADRC and the county’s Falls Prevention Coalition (see links below)

Memorable Quotes

“Falls don’t usually happen in a vacuum. They’re shaped by everything from medications and sleep to finances and social isolation.” – Roy Smalley

“We know that social isolation and loneliness can be just as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.” – Brittany Borchardt

“Gravity never sleeps, but it also never acts alone. The danger hours become truly dangerous when stacked on top of social pressures like living alone, tight finances, or lack of support.” – Roy Smalley

“Don’t focus on the fear of falling. Focus on maintaining your independence with preventive strategies like strength training, small home changes, and balance exercises.” – Brittany Borchardt

Call to Action

Falls prevention isn’t just about rugs or railings, it’s about timing, circumstances, and community. Notice your own “danger hours,” and be present for the people you love during theirs.

👉 Want to learn more or take action? Reach out to the Aging & Disability Resource Center of Dodge County for resources, tools, and upcoming classes:

* Phone: 920-386-3580 / 800-924-6407

* ADRC Website

* ADRC on Facebook

* FREE CLASSES at the ADRC:

* Powerful Tools for Caregivers Workshop [flyer] starts October 7, 2025

* Living Well with Chronic Conditions Workshop [flyer] starts October 21, 2025

Connect with Roy Smalley

I’d love to hear your stories, feedback, and ideas for future episodes. You can connect with me here:

* Instagram: @roysmalley.us

* Facebook: @roysmalley.us

* LinkedIn: roysmalley

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Don’t miss the rest of the Gravity Never Sleeps series, where next time we’ll ask a radical question: Is it possible to fall better? Subscribe to The Aging Well Firefighter Podcast on your favorite platform and join me as we explore how to fight wisely and age bravely.

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Episode Summary

The most dangerous trip you might ever take isn’t up a ladder or across an icy sidewalk; it’s the ten steps from your bed to the bathroom at 2 a.m. In this episode of The Aging Well Firefighter, Roy Smalley talks with Pam Tinsley, a U.S. Marine veteran, 20-year EMS provider, Advanced EMT, and overnight 911 dispatcher. Pam shares her unique perspective from both sides of the emergency call: listening to the panic in a caller’s voice and responding in person to cramped, unforgiving bathroom fall scenes.

Together, Roy and Pam explore why the bathroom can quickly become the most dangerous room in the house, the everyday reality of life as a dispatcher, and practical lessons that can prevent your next midnight trip from ending in tragedy.

Key Topics Covered

* Why the bathroom at night is one of the most common and dangerous locations for falls

* The unique perspective of working both as a 911 dispatcher and an AEMT

* The tough realities of dispatch work: constant distractions, pressure, noise, and human emotion

* Small, practical changes to prevent falls, from nightlights to pocket doors

* The humanity at the heart of emergency services dispatch: “It’s never my emergency. It’s always theirs.”

Memorable Quotes

* Pam Tinsley: “It's never my emergency. It's always theirs. I'm just there to help.”

* Pam Tinsley: “Bathrooms are always kind of terrible because bathrooms are always the smallest room in the house. It's very crowded… bathrooms are almost an afterthought.”

* Pam Tinsley: “Just turn a light on or have a nightlight… don't just trust yourself to feel your way into a dark room from a dark room.”

* Roy Smalley: “Dispatchers are the invisible lifeline of emergency services. They hear the first cry for help. They steady those frightened voices, and they can translate chaos into precise action.”

Call to Action

💡 Tonight, take one small step for your own safety: light your pathway, clear clutter, and think about how your space is designed. And the next time you hear that calm voice on the other end of 911, remember the unseen pressure our dispatchers work under… and the humanity they bring to every call.

Connect with Roy Smalley

* Instagram: @roysmalley.us

* Facebook: @roysmalley.us

* LinkedIn: roysmalley

* All my links: www.roysmalley.us

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