Getting what you want or need--or seeking compromise requires that one learns the fine art of persuasion. Often couples are not clear about how to negotiate and persuade, instead relying on coercion, emotional blackmail or other negative tactics that ultimately erode  the footings of their relationship.  Alvean and Doug talk about how to unlearn this negative behavior and learn how to reach accord,  For a full transcript of this episode, click here: LL37-The Art of Persuasion