Seeking the Heavenly in Marriage - Part 1 Colossians 3:18-19 . 18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Paul addressed this quite robustly in Ephesians 5:18-33 . Based on Colossians 4:16 , we can postulate that Paul’s letters…