The moment you decide to trust and to go within and heal what needs to be

healed then you can love. Until you’ve done the work — until you can say

that you truly love yourself and you’re not scared of being who you really

are… You love all of the darkness and the shadows and the wounds and the

trauma, the triggers and everything… all of the imperfections. All of the

shitty things that happened to you. All of the stories. Once you can love

that and let go. Then you’re on the right track. But if you’re always

trying to be something else. And you’re always trying to be something more.

And you think that there’s a point in life that you’re going to be healed —

you’re wrong. Because healing happens when you love yourself.