There’s a battle raging in homes today.  It’s a battle for control.

Teens want control of their lives.  But I’ve met many parents who are afraid to let them have it.  Moms will tell me their son is too immature to handle his own life.  Or, dads want to teach the kid a lesson … that the world doesn’t revolve around him!

Well, this battle for control is natural.  But mom, dad, you can’t hang on forever.  The more you clamp down on your teen, the more she’s tempted to control her life in other ways… like violating rules behind your back.

So be proactive!  Find little ways to release your grip… to let the rope out a little.  You’re not losing the battle.  You’re training your kids to be healthy and independent!

 

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