In this episode, we dive deep into the reality every man needs to face: women are human, not the center of your universe, and heartbreak is never a reason to throw your life away. Learn how to process pain, maintain your dignity, and redirect your energy toward growth, success, and self-mastery. This is a raw, honest conversation about moving on without losing yourself, building resilience, and understanding that your life—and your purpose—can’t hinge on someone else’s actions.

In this episode of The Be A Man Podcast, we break down one of the most confusing moments men face in dating — when a woman suddenly withdraws her energy, acts distant, or starts sending mixed signals. Instead of chasing, overexplaining, or falling into emotional weakness, this is the moment where a man must operate from a position of power, self-control, and clarity.

We’ll cover:

Why women sometimes pull back and test your emotional foundation.

The dangers of chasing validation instead of standing firm in your masculine frame.

How to respond with calm strength, boundaries, and presence.

The difference between reacting out of fear vs. leading from power.

CJ dives into the explosive Cassie-Diddy trial, unpacking the lessons men can learn from Cassie’s past and Alex Fine’s response as her husband. From vetting a woman’s history to maintaining masculine frame, this episode breaks down how to navigate a partner’s baggage without losing your edge. Expect raw, redpill truths on boundaries, leadership, and staying unshaken in the face of a woman’s complex past. Tune in for real talk on what it means to be a man in today’s world.

In this episode of the Be a Man Podcast, host CJ Wilkins delves into the nuanced discussion surrounding emotional intelligence (EI) in boys and its impact on their competitiveness as men on the global stage. With the evolving definitions of masculinity, CJ explores how cultivating EI—encompassing self-awareness, empathy, and effective communication—can be a strength rather than a hindrance in today's interconnected world.

Key Topics:

• The role of emotional intelligence in personal and professional success.

• Balancing emotional expression with resilience and determination.

• Strategies for developing EI in boys without compromising competitiveness.

• Real-world examples of emotionally intelligent leaders thriving globally.

Join CJ as he navigates this critical conversation, challenging traditional notions and advocating for a balanced approach to raising emotionally intelligent and globally competitive men.

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, I break down the uncomfortable truth behind modern dating struggles—and why accountability isn’t always on the table. 😤💔

If you’ve ever asked, “Where are the good men?”… this episode flips the mirror.

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In this episode, we delve into the Black Boycott of 2025—a powerful movement where Black communities across the nation harnessed their economic influence to protest corporate rollbacks of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives. We explore the origins of this boycott, its key players, and the broader implications for economic justice and systemic change

In this season opener, we delve into the unexpected journey of Shedeur Sanders, who, despite a stellar college career, experienced a significant slide to the fifth round in the 2025 NFL Draft.

We explore the factors contributing to this outcome, including perceptions of entitlement, pre-draft interview performances, and the influence of familial legacy. This episode offers insights into the importance of humility, self-awareness, and resilience, providing valuable lessons for Black men navigating personal and professional challenges.

CJ gives his take on 90s R&B and how it applies to Modern Women.

CJ goes into a tanget in Season 8 on the importance of having orginal thoughts.