This episode examines the Being With Paradox and the 4 ways of engaging in relationship, as described by Sam Wells in "The Nazareth Manifesto." Being with is the most powerful of the 4 ways of engaging in relationship, but it’s often the most overlooked. I speak about my own struggles with the George Floyd atrocity and how the last week forced me to be with my own ignorance, defensiveness, shame, unease, and privilege, along with the helpful and not so helpful ways I responded to my growing self-awareness