Holiness doesn't allow you to toil with sin. Likewise, chatisement doesn't allow to continue on the path of holiness. Only fools and not sons despise corrections. To live holy requires series of reroofs and corrections. Being holy doesn't make life dull but of good works, love and sincerity. Don't fear your earthly father more than the Father of Spirit. When the Holy Spirit corrects you of a wrong doing, it is better to heed the warning immediately and live. The fear of God is perfected in holiness.