Infidelity seems to be the center of attention. It’s everywhere!!!! It’s on the internet, in magazines, on the news, in TV programs and part of day to day conversations with friends, family and colleagues. Where is all of the chatter about monogamy? After all, rumor has it that society supports and values monogamy. If that’s the case, why don’t we hear more about the benefits of monogamy? Is there something wrong with those of us who choose a monogamous lifestyle? Are there really any benefits to monogamy? How about downsides? Is it truly possible to maintain a long term mutually monogamous relationship?