Let's face it, breaking up, as the song says, is hard to do.  Unless you are callous or exiting a toxic relationship no one wants to consciously hurt another person.  There are ways to help a former lover to gain appropriate closure and free them and yourself to move on.  It still hurts, but these approaches which Alvean and Doug discuss are not only the right way they are the kind way to help you both through a difficult passage.  For more and a complete transcript, click here:LL06