There’s a kind of betrayal that doesn’t just break you—it slowly erodes you, piece by piece, until one day, you don’t even recognize yourself anymore. And you most definitely can’t trust yourself.

That was me. 

I lost myself trying to hold on to something that was never real. I stayed in cycles of deception, gaslighting, and self-abandonment, convincing myself that if I could just be more—more patient, more understanding, more lovable, and live in complete denial—then maybe, just maybe, I’d finally be chosen and it would be like the betrayal never even happened. 

But betrayal has a way of forcing you to wake up.

In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the heartbreak that shattered me, the unraveling that followed, and the painful, beautiful journey of rebuilding myself from the ground up.

• The moment I realized I had been living in an illusion
• The slow destruction of my self-worth—how I let betrayal define me
• The breaking point—when I finally had to face myself and my deepest wounds
• The rebirth—choosing myself, rewriting my story, and reclaiming the love I was always worthy of

This is the episode I wish I had when I was drowning in the pain, believing I wasn’t enough. If you’ve ever felt like you lost yourself in someone else’s lies, like your heart has been shattered beyond repair, I want you to hear this: You will rise from this.

🎧 Hit play. Let’s go there.

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