What is the one problem holding you back from living the life of your dreams? 

Do you allow yourself to be happy for any extended period, whether in your relationships, happiness or general? Do you see a pattern? Once I saw the design, it became apparent how it worked.

The design was simple: enjoy a period of feeling pretty good, then do something to mess it up, and that is exactly how I lived most of my adult life until I shined the light of awareness on what was holding me back most of my adult life.