First dates are where attraction is either built or quietly destroyed. In this video, we break down the most common first date turn-offs that instantly change how someone sees you, even when the date looks fine on the surface. These aren’t dramatic red flags they’re subtle behaviors people often overlookWe talk about low effort, poor manners, lack of curiosity, emotional oversharing, and why being distracted or negative sends the wrong signal early on. Many of these habits don’t come from bad intentions, but they still shape how safe, attractive, and emotionally available someone appears.If you’ve ever wondered why a date didn’t turn into a second one, this conversation brings clarity. Understanding first date turn-offs isn’t about being perfect, it’s about awareness, balance, and showing up with intention from the very start.