Are young black female children encouraged more to study academically while our young black males are encouraged more to pursue areas such as sports, and entertainment?

Does the black woman aim too high, or has the black man been taught to settle at the level they are at?

Should a black woman refrain from obtaining special education and higher degrees so that she won't be considered arrogant by some black men's standards?

Are some black men who are now successful, but once a blue collar worker; marrying non- black women out of resent ,because   black women wouldn't give him the time of day before he made it big- so now he feels as though black women may not be good enough?

Should the black woman:

(a) have to pay majority of the bills to live where her education has finally landed her just to to keep a man by her side .

(b)Or to keep from being accused of trying to "outshine" the black man-choose not to pursue education, and to maintain the same level as the black men she may be  surrounded by.

(c)Obtain as much education and wealth as she possibly can - because she knows she may end up alone.

(d) Hope that more black men realize how important clean criminal records are, and have the ambition to pursue more career based, educational, or self employed options that will  make them a better match and increase their suitability. 

Is it possible for the black woman to have both love and success- or must it be one or the other?

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