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The Blame Game: When Couples Stop Listening and Start Pointing"
In relationships, it's easy to play the blame game—especially when pain, pride, and misunderstanding take center stage. But when couples spend more time accusing than understanding, no one wins. In this episode, Dr. Charles Dean dives into why couples get stuck in cycles of defensiveness, finger-pointing, and silent resentment—and how to break free.
We'll explore how unresolved hurt can turn into constant criticism, how to recognize projection versus accountability, and how couples can shift from "who's right" to "what's real." If you're tired of repeating the same arguments or feeling unheard in your relationship, this episode is for you.
💬 Key Topics Covered:
Why couples default to blame
The emotional cost of defensiveness
How unspoken needs turn into accusations
Tools to return to healthy, honest communication
🗝️ Keywords: relationships, marriage counseling, communication breakdown, couples conflict, emotional triggers, therapy, healing conversations, love and accountability
👉 Call to Action:
By Charles DeanThe Blame Game: When Couples Stop Listening and Start Pointing"
In relationships, it's easy to play the blame game—especially when pain, pride, and misunderstanding take center stage. But when couples spend more time accusing than understanding, no one wins. In this episode, Dr. Charles Dean dives into why couples get stuck in cycles of defensiveness, finger-pointing, and silent resentment—and how to break free.
We'll explore how unresolved hurt can turn into constant criticism, how to recognize projection versus accountability, and how couples can shift from "who's right" to "what's real." If you're tired of repeating the same arguments or feeling unheard in your relationship, this episode is for you.
💬 Key Topics Covered:
Why couples default to blame
The emotional cost of defensiveness
How unspoken needs turn into accusations
Tools to return to healthy, honest communication
🗝️ Keywords: relationships, marriage counseling, communication breakdown, couples conflict, emotional triggers, therapy, healing conversations, love and accountability
👉 Call to Action: