Parenting Champions by Lanny Bassham parenting-champions

1. Attainment = Accomplishing + Becoming: True success integrates external accomplishments with internal growth.
2. The Power of Self-Image: A strong self-image drives performance; focusing on solutions grows self-esteem.
3. Goal Getting: Emphasis on actionable, process-driven goals over results-oriented ones.
4. Stages of Goals: Attraction, distraction, and traction phases guide goal realization.
5. Mental Management System: Balance the conscious mind (goal setting), subconscious mind (performance), and self-image.
6. Yet Principle: Teach children to frame challenges with "not yet" to encourage perseverance.
7. Parent as Mental Coach: Parents are the primary mental coaches, shaping resilience and mindset.
8. Passion Drives Excellence: High levels of commitment match high aspirations.
9. Growth Through Pressure: Challenges create growth, akin to how coal becomes a diamond.
10. Reinforce Success: Celebrate wins and analyze failures calmly for continuous improvement.