"Where's Donna?" I panicked. Barry Manilow's "Jump, Shout Boogie" started blasting over the speakers of the Oakland Interstake Center. "Just start dancing and she'll come, " I remember being told. We had practiced for four months and it was the big night. Time passed and I was dancing the swing dance by myself. What do I do? Should I walk off the floor? Have you ever felt abandoned and alone? Have people let you down? What should you do when that happens?