at this point, we stopped apartment hunting, and just a few days before I was to give my apartment notice on whether or not I was staying or if I was going, he tells me in a phone call over the phone in a very flippant way that I should get a one-bedroom apartment when I started to ask more questions about why and what was going on. He said that all of the no’s we were getting from the apartment complexes really bothered him, and we were all signs that we shouldn’t be living together; let’s pause here.