The Candy Kinkdom

Eeeep! It's finally here! The 12th Day of Kinkmas...Christmas is TOMORROW. We're a mix of emotions - sad that we've reached the end of Kinkmas, happy that we've managed to put out all these episodes, and...hungry. For Christmas deliciousness.

This episode is lighthearted and we hope it sets you up for a good day tomorrow. We chat about our favourite Christmas movies and shows and how they put us in the spirit AND make us feel precious and little.

We sincerely hope you've enjoyed this series as much as we did. Have an amazing Holiday Candy Crew - we will be back in 2020.

Wow, we can't believe you're still with us this Kinkmas, thank you for staying tuned. On the 11th Day of Kinkmas, we tackle pet names. What we like, what we don't care for, and what even our worst enemy shouldn't try calling us. There are so many pet names in BDSM in general so we wanted to explore the ones relevant to caregivers and littles. Mostly cause they're the cutest and the best (KIDDING).

On the 10th Day of Christmas, we felt bad about the 9th day and all of that talk about punishments and what not. We KNOW littles don't disobey rules so we swiftly move on to talking about rewards instead. We do get a bit techy with it as well because ya know, science is cool too. And probably could relate to Christmas somehow. I don't know, I'm not a scientifitician.

What happens on the 9th day of Kinkmas? Some delicious conversation about the consequences meted out to littles who haven't done what they agreed to do. Sorry littles but we may be giving your caregivers some new ideas about how to handle disobedience. On the other hand, we also chat about funishment so we reckon it's a win lose situation.

On the 8th Day of Kinkmas, we have a big old brainstorm about how we can make gift giving awesome for others and our beautiful planet. Eco giving also has the added benefit of producing quirky and one of a kind gifts. We hope it gets you thinking about original and cherished presents for the ones you cherish.

On the 7th day of Kinkmas, it's all about treating yourself. We chat about our favourite foods, little or Christmas related. That's it. That's the whole episode. We love food, okay? And Christmas means some of the BEST food around. Tip: do NOT listen to this while hungry or at the shops.

Welcome to the 6th Day of Kinkmas - time flies when you're having fun and we've only 6 more days until Christmas Eve. This day is all about giving back to those wonderful carers of littles. How can we show appreciation for our caregivers? We think it's all about doing what littles do best.

Welcome to the 5th day of kinkmas! I kind of like the number 5. It's like...easy to do the multiplication table with. Anyhoooooo....

The 5th day of kinkmas is about sexual age play within your dynamic. Littles can be shy and caregivers can be worried about over stepping. What are some less stressful and intense ways to ease into this type of play? Well just grab some cold water for this one, is all we have to say.

We're a third of the way through the first Candy Kinkdom Kinkmas.

On the 4th day of Kinkmas, the focus is on communication within an already existing caregiver/little dynamic, be it in it's early days or after ten years together. How can we keep in contact, share what needs to be shared, and maintain our dynamic without overwhelming our partners or ourselves? Here are some quick tips that we have used and hope you guys find helpful.