In November 2012, Cari Farver vanished after spending time with a man she’d recently started dating—but unlike most missing person cases, the messages never stopped. For years, friends, family, and those closest to her received texts, emails, and social media messages that seemed to come from Cari, growing more threatening, obsessive, and impossible to ignore.

In this episode of Coffee and Crime with Mom, we walk co‑conspirators through the disappearance, the years‑long investigation, and the digital trail that led detectives to one of the most extraordinary examples of how technology and digital forensics can expose the truth. We examine the case behind Lover, Stalker, Killer, the evidence, and the twists that ultimately led to justice—always keeping Cari and her loved ones at the center of the story.

⚠️ Content Warning: Discussion of homicide, stalking, harassment, and other disturbing topics.

Sources:

• Netflix documentary Lover, Stalker, Killer
• Dateline NBC episode “Scorned”
• People Magazine reporting on the investigation and trial
• A&E Crime Library coverage of the Cari Farver investigation
• Publicly available Nebraska court records and trial proceedings
• Local Nebraska reporting from WOWT, KETV, and other outlets on the investigation and trial

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