Marriage isn’t about getting what you want—it’s about getting each other to heaven.

In this episode of The Catholic Couple, Bobby and Katie unpack one of the most counter-cultural truths of Catholic marriage: the path to holiness is paved with interruptions, inconveniences, sacrifice, and the Cross.

From daily annoyances to seasons of real suffering, marriage constantly invites us to die to ourselves. In this conversation, we talk honestly about:

• Why marriage is full of interruptions (and why that’s not a mistake)
• Doing things you don’t want to do—and how that forms virtue
• How spouses become each other’s crosses
• Why inconveniences are actually graces
• How sacrifice sanctifies us and makes us more like Christ
• The true purpose of marriage: mutual sanctification and salvation

Catholic marriage isn’t about comfort, happiness, or self-fulfillment. It’s about love that costs something. Love that looks like the Cross. Love that transforms us if we let it.

Whether you’re newly married, struggling, or decades in, this episode will challenge how you view marriage—and invite you to see even the hardest moments as opportunities for grace.

👉 If this episode encourages you, share it with another married couple who needs hope today.
 👉 Subscribe for more conversations on Catholic marriage, family, and discipleship.

#CatholicMarriage #TheCatholicCouple #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAndFaith #CatholicPodcast #MarriageAdvice #MarriageAndTheCross #FaithAndFamily #SacrificialLove #HolinessInMarriage #CatholicTeaching

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

In this episode, we unpack a powerful article we discussed on the show that tackles one of the most pressing questions of our digital age: What is an algorithm, really—and what is it doing to our souls? with guest, TJ Burdick

we explore how modern AI systems are not neutral tools, but machines designed to exploit our weaknesses, feed our vices, and keep us addicted to a hyper-reality that slowly pulls us away from real life, real relationships, and ultimately, God.

We dive into his article on CatholicExchange.com 

• Why algorithms are not “smart” in the human sense
• How hyper-reality fuels addiction, isolation, and despair
• The spiritual and psychological cost of constant digital consumption
• Why only humans—not machines—can love, sacrifice, and seek the common good
• What a truly Catholic use of technology looks like in a world dominated by AI

This episode isn’t anti-technology—it’s a call to choose reality, practice virtue, and reclaim our humanity before ethics are completely removed from the digital systems shaping our lives.

As St. Paul reminds us, we weren’t made to finish the doomscroll—we were made to finish the race.

👉 Learn more and read more from TJ Burdick

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share!

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

What if improving your marriage didn’t require a major overhaul—but a return to a few simple, intentional habits?

In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we break down four powerful marriage habits inspired by a viral clip from Arthur Brooks (Harvard professor and happiness researcher) that he shared on the Tim Ferriss Podcast. While Arthur Brooks approaches marriage from science and psychology, we show how his insights beautifully align with Catholic teaching, Sacred Scripture, and the wisdom of the saints.

Arthur Brooks challenges the idea that struggling marriages should immediately default to therapy alone. While therapy can help, he argues that many marriages heal not by digging up more past wounds—but by pouring in more joy, connection, and intentional love.

Using his “dirty cup” analogy, we explore how adding the right habits can push out resentment and rebuild intimacy.

In this episode, we discuss:

✔️ Why having more fun together matters and how many couples stop dating after marriage
✔️ How praying together—not just saying prayers—deepens spiritual and emotional intimacy
✔️ Why eye contact is essential for connection, trust, and feeling truly seen
✔️ The importance of physical touch in marriage, especially for men, and how it communicates love beyond words

We connect each habit to:
 📖 Scripture
 ⛪ Catholic teaching and the Catechism
 ✨ Quotes and insights from the saints
 🧠 Modern science and relationship research

Whether your marriage is thriving or feeling stuck, these four habits can help you strengthen your bond, grow in holiness together, and rediscover joy in your vocation.

👉 If this episode encouraged you, subscribe to the channel, leave a comment, and share this with another couple who could use hope and practical wisdom for their marriage.

Great marriages aren’t found—they’re built. One intentional habit at a time.

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share!

Keywords
Catholic marriage, Catholic couples podcast, marriage advice, Arthur Brooks marriage, Tim Ferriss podcast marriage, Christian marriage tips, praying together as a couple, how to improve your marriage, Catholic relationship advice, marriage habits, Theology of the Body, faith and marriage

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

What does real renewal in the Church actually look like—and why do so many parishes struggle to move from maintenance to mission?

In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we sit down with our good friend Ron Huntley, a seasoned Catholic leadership coach who works with dozens of dioceses and countless priests across the country. Ron has spent years helping Church leaders build healthy cultures, authentic discipleship, and truly evangelizing parishes—and his work is rooted in one clear mission: bringing the Great Commission (Matthew 28) to life.

We dive deep into Ron’s new book, Road to Renewal, which features 14 total chapters—12 written by priests and Church leaders who candidly share their struggles, breakthroughs, failures, and victories, and 2 written by Ron himself, offering wisdom and clarity from decades of walking alongside parish leadership. Together, these chapters paint an honest picture of what it really takes to move a parish from maintenance to mission. Checkout Ron's website, Huntley Leadership for a lot of free resources and his links to podcast and youtube episodes. 

In this conversation, we discuss:

• Why so many parishes are stuck in “maintenance mode”
• What renewal actually requires from priests and parish leaders
• The common obstacles that prevent authentic discipleship
• How relationships—not programs—fuel evangelization
• What the Church can learn from leaders who are courageously trying something new
• How moving toward mission brings life back into parishes

Whether you’re a priest, parish leader, ministry volunteer, or a Catholic who longs to see the Church fully alive, this episode will challenge, encourage, and equip you to think differently about renewal—and your role in it.

📘 Learn more about Ron’s book: Road to Renewal
🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on faith, marriage, leadership, and discipleship

 📩 Share this episode with someone who cares deeply about the future of the Church

“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations…” (Matthew 28:19)
 This episode is about making that command real—right where you are.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

What does the sanctuary candle really mean—and how can it help our children fall in love with Jesus in the Eucharist?

In this powerful and heartwarming episode, we sit down with Catholic author Susan Joy Bellavance to discuss her new children’s book from Sophia Institute Press, This Little Light of Thine. This beautifully illustrated story follows the sanctuary candle as it travels from church to church, gently teaching children (and adults) the profound truth it represents: Jesus Christ is truly present in the Tabernacle.

Susan explains how the sanctuary candle points us to the same holy reality revealed in Scripture—from God’s presence in the burning bush to His dwelling among us today in every Catholic church around the world. The book is a simple yet profound tool to help restore reverence, awe, and joy for the Eucharist, especially in the hearts of our children.

But this conversation goes even deeper.

Susan also shares the miraculous story that brought this book to life, along with unforgettable personal testimonies from the three years she spent discerning religious life in Mother Teresa’s order. Living, praying, and serving alongside Mother Teresa herself, Susan witnessed extraordinary moments of faith, humility, and trust in God’s presence—experiences that continue to shape her life and mission today.

This episode will:

• Help parents teach children why the sanctuary candle matters
• Rekindle reverence for Jesus truly present in the Eucharist
• Offer rare, firsthand stories of Mother Teresa’s holiness and miracles
• Inspire deeper faith through powerful storytelling and witness

Whether you’re a parent, catechist, or simply longing to grow in Eucharistic devotion, this episode will remind you that God is not distant—He is here, waiting for us, in every tabernacle.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we sit down with Charlie McKinney, President of Sophia Institute Press, to talk about one of the most exciting developments in Catholic media today—the Saintifi app.

Saintifi is a Catholic audiobook app designed for busy Catholics who want to grow in their faith but struggle to find time to read. With unlimited access to over 250 Catholic books, and 8–10 new titles added every month, Saintifi allows you to listen to trusted Catholic teaching wherever life takes you—whether you’re commuting, working out, or doing chores.

We dive into:

• Why audiobooks are becoming a powerful tool for Catholic formation
• How Saintifi helps Catholics grow spiritually without adding more to their schedule
• The vision behind Sophia Institute Press and their commitment to faithful, orthodox Catholic content
• How listening to great Catholic books can transform marriages, families, and personal discipleship
• Why this app may be a game-changer for modern Catholic evangelization

If you’re serious about growing in your faith—but feel overwhelmed, distracted, or too busy—this episode will show you a practical, accessible way to keep Jesus and the Church at the center of your daily life.

🎧 Listen now and discover how Saintifi can help you build a stronger Catholic mind, heart, and home—one book at a time.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

Parenting can feel exhausting, confusing, and downright overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we’re joined by Dr. Ray Guarendi, renowned Catholic psychologist, bestselling author, radio and TV host, and father of ten, to talk about his newest book, Drama-Free Disciple: Dr. Ray Coaches You To Parneting Success from Sophia Institute Press.

With his signature humor, clarity, and no-nonsense wisdom, Dr. Ray helps Catholic parents cut through cultural confusion and reclaim their God-given role as calm, confident leaders in the home. Drawing from decades of clinical experience—and the real-life chaos of raising a big family—Dr. Ray shares practical, battle-tested strategies for parenting with both authority and grace.

In this conversation, we dive into how parents can stop overtalking, reduce constant frustration, and create peace in their homes through clear communication and effective discipline—without yelling, gimmicks, or “psychobabble.”

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Diffuse sibling rivalry and stop constant bickering
• Use “blackout discipline” to establish calm, consistent authority
• Create bedtime routines that actually bring peace
• Replace ineffective countdowns with tools that foster obedience
• Teach honesty as a habit and protect your child’s integrity
• Make wise decisions about smartphones, driving, and privileges

Dr. Ray also walks through real-life parenting scenarios—from school-morning chaos and family road trips to technology use, disrespect, and disagreements between parents—offering ready-to-use scripts that help you communicate clearly, argue less, and lead with confidence.

This episode is a must-listen for Catholic parents, married couples, and anyone raising children in today’s culture who wants practical wisdom rooted in truth, love, and responsibility. This isn’t theory—it’s proven guidance from a father who’s lived it and a psychologist who’s counseled families for decades.

If you’re looking to raise respectful, resilient children while preserving peace in your marriage and home, this conversation with Dr. Ray Guarendi will equip you to become the parent your kids need—and deserve.

🎧 Listen now and start parenting with clarity, confidence, and grace.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

What if one prayer could change your home… your family… and even your work?

In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, Bobby sits down with Jonathan Conrad, CEO and founder of The Catholic Woodworker, to talk about the prayer that quietly transformed his life: the Rosary.

What began as a woodworking business slowly became something much deeper—a mission centered on beauty, prayer, and helping families grow closer to God. As Jonathan shares his faith journey, we unpack why the Rosary matters, why praying together strengthens families, and how sacred beauty can draw hearts back to Christ.

This conversation isn’t just about rosaries—it’s about:

• Why the Rosary is one of the most powerful prayers for families
• How prayer shapes the culture of a home
• Why beauty in our faith life matters more than we realize
• How The Catholic Woodworker has become both a successful business and a ministry, employing over 30 stay-at-home moms who create rosaries from their own homes

If you’re longing for deeper prayer in your family, struggling to stay consistent, or simply curious why so many Catholics are rediscovering the Rosary, this episode is for you.

👉 If this conversation resonates with you, subscribe to the channel so you don’t miss future episodes on faith, marriage, and building a Christ-centered home.

💬 We’d also love to hear from you:
Do you pray the Rosary as a family? Why or why not? Drop a comment below and join the conversation.

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share!

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

In this heartfelt and hope-filled episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we sit down with internationally acclaimed Italian journalist and author Costanza Miriano to discuss her newest book from Sophia Institute Press, Blessed Is the Day We Got It Wrong.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “failing” at marriage, this conversation will set your heart free.

Costanza invites us into a refreshingly honest vision of marriage—one where mistakes aren’t signs of failure but sacred opportunities for grace, humility, and deeper unity. Drawing from the wisdom in her book, she reminds us that marriage isn’t a project we master but a lifelong journey where two imperfect people learn, fall, rise, and grow together with God’s help.

In this episode we explore:

• Why a “perfect marriage” doesn’t exist—and that’s good news
• How God uses our failures to teach us how to “get it right”
• The beauty of forgiveness, surrender, sacrifice, and starting again
• Why the world misunderstands marriage success
• How couples can transform conflict into communion
• The power of choosing love—especially on the days we get it wrong

Costanza’s joyful, grounded, distinctly Catholic perspective on love and married life will inspire you to see your relationship in a new light: not as something to perfect, but as something to continually renew through grace.

If you and your spouse want to grow closer—not by avoiding mistakes, but by learning from them—this is the episode to watch.

Because in God’s hands, even the messiest moments can become miracles.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85

In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, we sit down with Dr. Carrie Gress to discuss her upcoming book, Something Wicked: Why Feminism Can’t Be Fused with Christianity.

Together, we walk through the origins of the feminist movement, the key players who shaped it, and how the ideology has evolved into the modern wave we see today. Dr. Gress exposes the hidden philosophies, spiritual influences, and cultural currents that have guided feminism from the very beginning—many of which directly contradict the Christian worldview.

We explore tough but essential questions:

• Is it possible to be both Christian and feminist?
• What are the underlying motives embedded in the movement?
• Why has feminism so often undermined marriage, motherhood, and the dignity of women?
• How did we get from women’s rights to today’s aggressive, anti-family activism?

Dr. Gress brings clarity, history, and deep insight to a topic that shapes nearly every corner of the culture. Whether you agree or not, this conversation will challenge you to look beyond the slogans and see what’s really at work.

If you’re passionate about faith, culture, marriage, and the future of the Church, you won’t want to miss this episode.

Subscribe, share, and join the conversation as we dive into one of the most important cultural debates of our time.

https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85