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Your dating profile has ONE job: get men you’re actually interested in INTO YOUR INBOX. If it’s not doing that, if it’s just attracting dusty project boys, your dating profile isn’t doing its job.

Solution: Come to Swipe. Match. Marry. Let me show you the FIVE photos you MUST have to get your profile doing its job: getting handsome, godly, high-caliber men you’re actually excited about into your inbox.

Register HERE for Swipe. Match. Marry.

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Your dating profile has ONE job: get men you’re actually interested in INTO YOUR INBOX. If it’s not doing that, if it’s just attracting dusty project boys, your dating profile isn’t doing its job.

Solution: Come to Swipe. Match. Marry. Let me show you the FIVE photos you MUST have to get your profile doing its job: getting handsome, godly, high-caliber men you’re actually excited about into your inbox.

Register HERE for Swipe. Match. Marry.

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Many Christian women quietly wonder whether the kind of man they hope to marry still exists.

In this episode, I sit down with Chandler, a thoughtful Christian man who is intentionally saving sex for marriage and hoping to build a Christ-centered home and family.

He wants to laugh with his wife over Taco Bell at 2:00 a.m.

He wants Tuesday night games with his future family.

We talk about what first captures his attention, what makes a woman unforgettable, why modern dating has been more difficult than he expected, and what he wishes Christian women understood about the men who are genuinely ready for marriage.

If you have ever wondered what a marriage-minded Christian man is actually thinking, this conversation is for you.

Michelle Joiner is a private advisor for single Christian women making high-stakes decisions every day and resolved to marry well.

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In this episode, Michelle shares the truth married women know but do not always say out loud.

What is marriage to a Boaz really like?

It is beautiful.

It is tender.

It is chosen.

It is sexy glances in the kitchen, grocery-store whispers, and being seen as beautiful when real life changes your body.

But it is not easy.

And that is exactly why the man’s character matters.

If you desire marriage, children, family, intimacy, legacy, partnership, and a man of God beside you, send an email to [email protected] with the word BRIDE, and Michelle will send you the details for Kingdom Bride Unlocked.

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In this episode, Michelle talks about two patterns that keep Christian women stuck in dating: criticism and chaos. 

If you keep blaming men, dating apps, your church, your city, or God’s timing while showing up inconsistent, overwhelmed, and hard to pursue, you may be blocking the very love you’re praying for. 

Through the story of Ruth and Boaz, Michelle shows why wise counsel, humility, steadiness, and strategic movement matter for women who want to marry well. 

Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. 

She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.

Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.

To learn more, visit:

thechristiandatingcoach.com

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How do you know if a man is worth continuing to talk to?

How do you know if he is faithful, serious, godly, and someone you should not let get away?

In this episode, Michelle offers a wiser, more graceful way to think about discernment. 

Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. 

She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.

Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.

To learn more, visit:

thechristiandatingcoach.com

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What if the kind of man you want actually exists?

In this episode, Michelle speaks to the woman who has quietly lowered her expectations because faithfulness, clarity, tenderness, and godly pursuit started to feel unrealistic.

But there are men who do not like other women’s pictures.
 There are men who do not look at other women.
 There are men who pray, read the Bible, and are waiting for marriage.

And maybe the issue is not that he does not exist.

Maybe the issue is recognition.

Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. 

She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.

Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.

To learn more, visit:

thechristiandatingcoach.com

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More time does not fix a process that keeps producing disappointment.

In this episode, Michelle draws from her background as an engineer to explain why repeated disappointment in dating is not neutral. It wears on your hope, your confidence, your softness, and your ability to believe that marriage is still possible.

If you have been deleting and redownloading the apps, trying to stay open, hoping the next attempt will be different, and still finding yourself disappointed by the same kind of men, this episode will help you consider whether your current process is worthy of your desire. 

New episodes every Monday and Thursday for discerning Christian women who are done waiting and ready to marry well.

Learn more at thechristiandatingcoach.com.

To inquire about private mentorship, email Michelle at [email protected] and share what has been the hardest part of your struggle to marry well.

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What if settling is not just choosing the wrong man?

What if settling is also allowing yourself to keep living a life beneath the desire God placed in you?

In this episode, Michelle reframes what it means to “never settle” and speaks directly to the Christian woman who is successful, capable, grateful, and still honest enough to admit: I want marriage.

If you have been waiting, hoping, praying, and quietly wondering why nothing is changing, this episode will help you tell the truth about your desire and consider whether your current process is worthy of the life you actually want. 

New episodes every Monday and Thursday for discerning Christian women who are done waiting and ready to marry well.

Learn more at thechristiandatingcoach.com.

 To inquire about private mentorship, email Michelle at [email protected] and share what has been the hardest part of your struggle to marry well. 

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 You’ve been told to be content. 

To wait quietly.

To make sure you never look desperate.

But what if the desire you keep trying to silence is not the problem?

This is a bold, tender word for the Christian woman who wants marriage and is tired of apologizing for it.

You’re also invited to Come and Pray this Saturday, May 16th, 2026.

No teaching. No coaching. Just prayer for women who desire marriage.

To receive the invitation, email [email protected]
with the word PRAYER.