After 10 years of marriage, we sat down to reflect: What truly made the difference?

What helped us grow? What nearly broke us? And what did God teach us through it all?

In this video, we shared 10 lessons from 10 years of marriage. You'll hear the real, practical, faith-filled wisdom that has shaped our journey as husband and wife and now fuels our passion as marriage coaches.

These lessons will help you to:

✔Strengthen your connection

✔ Communicate with more grace

✔ Build emotional + spiritual intimacy

✔ Navigate conflict with maturity

✔ Love each other the Kingdom way

Whether you're engaged, newly married, or a decade in, there’s something here for you.

Tell us in the comments: Which lesson spoke to you the most?

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With love,

Drs. Anthony & Tolulope Akerele

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How does Black Tax affect marriage, and what’s the right way to honor parents without hurting your home?

In this episode of The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, we dive deep into Black Tax and its impact on marriage, especially in African and immigrant families. We discuss:

The difference between honoring parents vs. paying Black Tax

Why family responsibilities must be handled as one in marriage

How to avoid unnecessary financial weight that can create stress in your relationship

Practical ways to support parents and extended family without breaking your marriage bond

Whether you’re newly married, planning for marriage, or already navigating these pressures, this conversation will help you set healthy boundaries, honor your parents biblically, and protect your marriage from hidden strain.

👉 Watch now to learn how to honor your parents without sacrificing your marriage.

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On this episode we discussed what makes submission hard in marriage.

This episode is very rich, and like other episodes, we thank God for the grace for wisdom that He has given us in this domain, and we are convinced that you will be massively blessed and transformed.

Husbands: You want to know why your wife has been finding it difficult to submit to you and how you can help?

Wives: You want to know how to overcome the difficulties you are having or even looking for a way to communicate this issue with your husband?

This latest episode is what you need. We shared scriptural truths and practical examples from our own marriage that will greatly bless you.

Wisdom is available. Grace is available. Access it freely and live a life of endless Bliss.

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The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage. Come on this journey with us as we grow together in love, unity, and purpose...God’s way.

💛 Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with everyone married or not. It will bless you! Want to learn more?

Check out our website: oadynasty.com Connect with us on IG: @oa_dynasty Get Cleave to Bliss on our website: cleavetobliss.oadynasty.com or via Amazon You can also listen to this podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.

Submission in marriage! A topic that triggers many women yet it is a command from God. How do we balance this understanding without making women feel they are destined for subjugation?

In this Cleave to Bliss Podcast episode, we share what submission in marriage is and what it isn't.

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The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage. Come on this journey with us as we grow together in love, unity, and purpose...God’s way.

💛 Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with everyone married or not. It will bless you! Want to learn more?

Check out our website: oadynasty.com Connect with us on IG: @oa_dynasty Get Cleave to Bliss on our website: cleavetobliss.oadynasty.com or via Amazon You can also listen to this podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.

When a wife feels loved, it shows.

And when a man feels truly honored, you’ll see it all over him.

In our latest episode of The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, we share how to love your spouse intentionally and deeply—with real, honest gems from our own journey.

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What’s one way you show love to your spouse?

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Thanks for being here with us on The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage. Come on this journey as we grow in love, unity, and purpose—God’s way. 💛

Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with everyone married or not. It will bless you!

Want to learn more? Check out our website: oadynasty.com

Connect on IG: @oa_dynasty

Get Cleave to Bliss on our website: cleavetobliss.oadynasty.com or via Amazon

You can also listen to this podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.

On today’s episode, Drs Anthony and Tolulope Akerele are talking about what it means to be married but single, and how to resolve this.

We’re sharing real stories from our journey, biblical truth, and practical ways you can build a thriving marriage. If you've ever struggled with becoming one with your spouse or just wondering why marriage seems hard for you when you have a spouse, this episode is for you.

Thanks for being here with us on The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage. Come on this journey as we grow in love, unity, and purpose—God’s way. 💛

Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with everyone married or not. It will bless you!

#CleaveToBliss #Podcast #Episode10 #KingdomMarriage #MarriedButSingle #MarriageGodsWay #ctbpodcast

Want to learn more? Check out our website: oadynasty.com Connect on IG: @oa_dynasty Get Cleave to Bliss on our website: cleavetobliss.oadynasty.com or via Amazon

You can also listen to this podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.

Thanks for being here with us on The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage.

In today’s episode, Drs Anthony and Tolulope Akerele are talking about something so foundational, yet often misunderstood in marriage—Is it possible to become one with your spouse?

We’re sharing real stories from our journey, biblical truth, and practical ways you can protect the oneness in your marriage—no matter what stage of marriage you're in.

If you've ever struggled with family boundaries, emotional independence, or truly putting your spouse first, this episode is for you. Come on this journey as we grow in love, unity, and purpose—God’s way. 💛

Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with everyone married or not. It will bless you!

This one’s personal. In today’s episode, Drs Anthony and Tolulope Akerele are talking about something so foundational, yet often misunderstood in marriage—what it really means to leave and cleave.

We’ve lived this. We’ve coached through it. And honestly, we’ve seen how powerful this principle is for building a strong, God-honouring home. Leaving isn’t just about moving out of your parents’ house, and cleaving isn’t just about staying married. It’s about creating something new, sacred, and intentional—together.

We’re sharing real stories from our journey, biblical truth, and practical ways you can protect the oneness in your marriage—no matter what stage of marriage you're in.

If you've ever struggled with family boundaries, emotional independence, or truly putting your spouse first, this episode is for you.

Thanks for being here with us on The Cleave to Bliss Podcast, your go-to podcast for wisdom on everything marriage. Come on this journey as we grow in love, unity, and purpose—God’s way. 💛

📖 “A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24

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On this episode , Drs. Anthony and Tolulope Akerele shed light on the Wedding Night Expectations vs Reality. So many to-be couples anticipate the wedding night but what if the expectations doesn't meet the reality? On this fun episode, we unpack the difference between expectations vs reality and the impact on your marriage. You will be blessed as always. This isn’t just another marriage talk — this is real, raw, and rooted in Kingdom principles. Whether you're dreaming of your wedding night or looking to grow in intimacy, this conversation is a must-listen. Don’t forget to: ✅ Like | ✅ Subscribe | ✅ Share with someone preparing to say “I do” 📌 Watch till the end — we drop some hard truths you mustn't miss. #WeddingNight #Expectations #Reality #KingdomMarriage #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast Want to learn more? Check out our website: oadynasty.com Connect on IG: @oa_dynasty Get Cleave to Bliss on our website: cleavetobliss.oadynasty.com or via Amazon You can also listen to this podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.

Weddings are beautiful, no doubt — the dress, the dance, the décor. But what happens after the couple cut the cake and the guests go home? In this episode, Drs. Anthony and Tolulope Akerele get real about the difference between a wedding day and a marriage journey.

Spoiler alert: they are not the same thing.

Your marriage deserves more than just a magical moment — it deserves a meaningful mission.

🎧 Tune in and let’s talk about what it really takes to thrive after “I do.”

#MarriageMatters #WeddingVsMarriage #KingdomMarriage #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast