What is it actually like to grow up with a cleft lip and palate?
In this episode of The Cleft Mama Podcast, I'm joined by 21-year-old Troy, who was born with a unilateral cleft lip and palate in Northern Ireland.
Troy hasn't spoken publicly very much about having a cleft before. But when he decided to run his first half marathon and raise money for CLAPA, he also decided it was time to step outside his comfort zone and share that part of his story.
We talk about his memories of growing up with a cleft, including speech therapy, hearing appointments, grommets and surgery. What really struck me as a mum was hearing how differently he remembers some of the appointments that we, as parents, can worry so much about. Hearing tests felt like games, speech therapy meant getting out of school, and even his hospital experiences don't seem to have phased him very much.
Troy also talks about reaching the end of his routine cleft care at 21, being offered the option of further surgery but feeling happy with who he is, and why he wouldn't choose to take his cleft away if he could.
We also chat about his upcoming Belfast Half Marathon, why he chose to raise money for CLAPA and how he has already more than doubled his original Β£500 fundraising target.
And towards the end, I ask Troy what he would tell his younger self. His answer is one I think every parent of a baby or child with a cleft should hear.
- Troy's fundraiser: https://www.justgiving.com/page/troy-beattie-2?utm_medium=FA&utm_source=CL&fbclid=IwY2xjawUTvfBwZG9mBWV4dG4DYWVtAjEwAGJyaWQRMVRTNExibXBxMVpHWVlQT0VzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEeGYsHikLO7k5yo71z383ZYRTNSC2RWgxv0FVk8spucXDV4mRv8Y-mvK0GCl0_aem_aY4gukAFvQTaJMLNXZI71A
- Troy's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/troy.beattie.378
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